Secret Marriage and husband wants to dump me
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Salam alaikom, I'm new Muslim last 2008 Dec.&married for 4 yrs,no kids ,I've been married for an Arab man and I'm Asian,I respect him so much and I wear even nikap,suddenly this dec.2012, I make facebook go family only , my mother ask me to put picture with put hijab cos she miss me,I don't want to put but I feel haram cos she crying , so I put in privacy,and my husband don't know that I have an account in fb , and January 2013 come, I found out that my husband have facebook account and all girls he talk, he denied me first but he later he tell the truth that he has,and at that time I don't log put my fb account he found out that I have too and he see the photo, he is too much angry and call me to much bad,is that mistakes only my family see that pic cos it's on privacy, now he tell me all the time lier and cheater, I explained him, it's for mama only but he don't believe & now he tell me he don't want me,by the way my married with him his family don't know he hide me for al this years,he don't have time with me and sad to say the things the husband and wife do he call another name not my name,now it's been month that we are not ok, I love him and I don't want to loose him, what would be the best u can do ? Can you advice me?he don't ever sleep with me till morning with in 4 years I'm alone,what can u say? And now when we are fighting he dont care about me, and he tell remove my hijab, and he don't care cos he will marry his cousin, I know I make mistakes, how about him he don't have mistakes? I don't know what I can do pls help me, I'm hinging realy,,
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