How long can husband live away from wife.
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
I just want to know if it is against Islam for a man to
deny his wife of sexual intercourse due to distance between the two, when both
of them leaves in different countries. And for how long is it allowed for a man
to denied his wife sexual intercourse and how the man will ask for forgiveness
from his wife, despite the fact the woman clearly understand the reasons. This
is happening because the man has to go to another country to work and was not
able to go with his wife because the country where the man works denied him of
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How long can husband
live away from wife
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness
that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
There is absolutely no harm or sin on either party if the
husband and the wife united in the sacred bond of marriage both agree and
accept that they would have to live separate from each other for a substantial
period of time for some genuine reason and cause (like one amongst them is
studying or working abroad, etc.). Such
a separation by itself does not affect the validity of one’s state of ‘nikaah’
with one’s spouse in the very least.
If one amongst the two parties (the husband or the wife)
does not agree or accept such a separation for any reason whatsoever, that
party is well within their rights in Shariah to seek a permanent separation
through the institution of divorce.
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due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,