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AS-SALAM-ALA.KUM WA RAQH MAT UAALHI WA TAALA WA BARAKATUHU.

DEAR BROTHER.

I WAS SUFFERING FROM URINE PROBLEM SINCE LONG BACK WHEN I WAS 12 YEARS OLD NOW IAM DOING (MBA) AND MY AGE IS 23 YEARS.

WHEN EVER I SAW ANY KIND OF MOVIE OR ANY PICTURE AS SOON AS I WILL RELEASED SPURN IN MY URINAL PART (WHICH IS PRIVATE PART OF OUR BODY) AFTER STRUGGLING A LOT THEN ALSO I COULD NOT GET THE SOLUTION FOR THE REASON I MENTION BEHIND.

I WANT TO OFFER DAILY TIMES OF PRAYER BUT COULD NOT DONE FOR THIS ONLY.

PLEASE SUGGEST ME AND HELP TO AVOID THIS PROBLEM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (INSHALLA).

AND I WANT MY FACE TO LOOK LIKE A NOOR OF LIGHT PLEASE HELP ME REGSRDING THIS.

MAY ALLAH WILL GIVE REWARDS TO YOU INSHALLA.

IF ANY GRAMMATICAL MISTAKE ARE THERE THEN I WILL VERY SORRY FOR THIS.

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Answer:

Release of madhi mani

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Your Question: ……WHEN EVER I SAW ANY KIND OF MOVIE OR ANY PICTURE AS SOON AS I WILL RELEASED SPURN IN MY URINAL PART (WHICH IS PRIVATE PART OF OUR BODY)

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 24 Surah Noor verse 30:

30 Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and (scrupulously) guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah Aaraaf verse 33:

33 Say: The things that my Lord hath indeed forbidden are: ‘fahisha’ (shameful or indecent deeds) whether open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning of partners to Allah for which he hath given no authority; and saying things about Allah of which ye have no knowledge.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 151:

151 Say: "Come I will rehearse what Allah hath (really) prohibited you from": join not anything as equal with Him; be good to your parents: kill not your children on a plea of want; We provide sustenance for you and for them; come not (even) nigh to ‘fahisha’ (shameful or indecent deeds) whether open or secret; take not life which Allah hath made sacred except by way of justice and law: thus doth He command you that ye may learn wisdom.

Respected brother in Islam, it would simply not behove and befit the character of a believer who sincerely fears Allah and the Last Day to indulge in any manifestation of the abomination of ‘fahisha’….and without an iota of a doubt, the watching of movies and/or pictures with sexual orientation is an act of ‘fahisha’ in the Sight of the Lord.

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 4886 Narrated by Anas ibn Malik

That he heard the Messenger of Allah (saws) say: ‘The eye commits ‘zina’, and the palm of the hand, the foot, the body, the tongue and private part of the body confirm it or deny it.’

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.260 Narrated by Ibn Abbas

I have not seen a thing resembling 'lamam' (minor sins) than what Abu Huraira narrated from the Prophet (saws) who said "Allah has written for the children of Adan their share of ‘zina’ which he commits inevitably. The ‘zina’ of the eyes is the sight (to gaze at a forbidden thing), the ‘zina’ of the tongue is the talk, and the inner self wishes and desires and the private parts testify all this or deny it."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.799 Narrated by Sahl bin Sad

The Prophet (saws) said, "Whoever guarantees me (the chastity of) what is between his legs (i.e. his private parts), and what is between his jaws (i.e., his tongue), I guarantee him Paradise."

Your Question: …..WHEN EVER I SAW ANY KIND OF MOVIE OR ANY PICTURE AS SOON AS I WILL RELEASED SPURN IN MY URINAL PART (WHICH IS PRIVATE PART OF OUR BODY) AFTER STRUGGLING A LOT THEN ALSO I COULD NOT GET THE SOLUTION FOR THE REASON I MENTION BEHIND.
I WANT TO OFFER DAILY TIMES OF PRAYER BUT COULD NOT DONE FOR THIS ONLY. PLEASE SUGGEST ME AND HELP TO AVOID THIS PROBLEM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (INSHALLA).
Respected brother in Islam, first and foremost you should turn in ‘taubah’ unto your Lord Most Gracious and seek sincere repentance for watching unlawful movies/pictures….if you are indeed sincere in your repentance and subsequently amend your conduct, it is expected that you will find your Lord Forgiving and Merciful.

The conditions or ways to seek sincere Taubah or Repentance from the Merciful Lord are:

• One is aware that he has sinned, and feels sorry and ashamed at his sin.
• Makes a solemn covenant and promise with Allah that he will not repeat his sin again.
• Turns to Allah and seeks forgiveness, before he has met with his appointment of death.
• Is a believer and does righteous good deeds thereafter.

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:

(O Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before the scourge overtakes you; for then you may get no help from anywhere.”

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136:

Allah likes such good people very much, who, if ever they commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their shortcomings. For who, but Allah, can forgive sins? (And Allah loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from Allah, and with Gardens beneath which canals flow, and they will reside therein forever! How excellent is the reward of those who do good deeds!

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 54:

When those come to you who believe in Our Signs, say: "Peace be on you! Your Lord had inscribed for Himself (the rule of) Mercy. Verily if any of you did evil in ignorance, and thereafter repented and amended (his conduct), Lo! He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."

Respected brother in Islam, the root of the problem is your indulgence in watching unlawful movies and pictures of sexual orientation and thus the manifestation of ‘fahisha’…..if you could bring yourself to fear Allah and abstain from indulging in the ‘fahisha’, not only would you save yourself from manifest sin, but you would be better able to fulfill your heart’s desire and diligently worship your Lord.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.4 Narrated by Abdullah

We were with the Prophet (saws) while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

Secondly brother, one’s state of purification depends on what exactly is released from their private parts in Shariah:

Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.10

Wadi is a thick white secretion discharged (by some people) after urination. It is considered impure. Aishah said, " Wadi comes out after urination. The person should wash the private parts and perform ablution. It is not necessary to perform ghusl. This is related by Ibn al-Mundhir. Ibn 'Abbas related that "mani” (ejaculation or full sexual discharge) requires ghusl. As for “madhi” (prostatic fluid or initial sexual discharge) and ‘wadi’ they require a complete purification." This is related by al-Athram. Al-Baihaqi has it with the wording, "Concerning ‘madhi’ and ‘wadi’, he said, 'Wash your sexual organs and perform the same type of ablution as you perform for prayer."'

Other than urine, there are basically three types of discharges that are released from one’s private organs:

1. Wadi (a thick white secretion immediately after uniration by some people)
2. Madhi (a sort of slow release of lubricant just prior to a full sexual discharge)
3. Mani (a full sexual discharge)

If only ‘Wadi’ or ‘Madhi’ is released, one does not require a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify himself; he must wash his private parts and the part of his clothes or body where the ‘wadi’ or ‘madhi’ has touched, do the ‘wudu’, and he would be available for prayer.

But when the ‘Mani’ or a full sexual discharge is released, it would become obligatory for the person to perform a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify oneself before making oneself available for prayer.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan