The prophet (pbuh) ordered woman to obey thier husbands, and he encouraged that, what hadeeth shows the obligation of this matter
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Wife to obey husband
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 34:
Men are the managers of
the affairs of women because Allah has made the one superior to the other, and because men spend of their wealth on
women. Virtuous women are , therefore, devoutly obedient (to their husband); and
they guard in his absence what Allah would have them guard (their honor, their property, etc.)
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 30 Surah Rum verse 21:
And of Allah’s Sign is
that He has created for you wives from your own species, so that you may find peace with them, and (Allah has) created love and mercy
between you. Surely in this there are
many Signs for those who reflect.
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 285 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘Had it been permissible
that a person may prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered that a
wife should prostrate herself before her husband.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3272 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
When Allah's Messenger (saws) was asked which
woman was best he (saws) replied, "The one who pleases (her husband) when
he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his
wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he
disapproves."
Sahih Muslim Hadith 3465 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As
Allah's Messenger (saws) said: ‘The whole
world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious
woman.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 287 Narrated by Mu'adh ibn Jabal
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘Whenever a woman causes
annoyance and torture to her husband in this world, his mate from among the
‘houris’ of Paradise says to her: ‘May Allah ruin thee, do not cause thy
husband annoyance, for he is only thy guest, and will soon leave thee to join
us in Paradise.’
Abu Hurairah
reported that the Prophet (saws) said: "A woman is not to fast [even] for
one day while her husband is present except with his permission, unless it is
during Ramadan."
Related by Ahmad,
al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.460 Narrated by Abu Huraira
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "If a
husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she
refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till
morning."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 284 Narrated by Abu Ali Talq ibn Ali
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘When a man sends
for his wife for the satisfaction of his need, she should go to him even if she
may be occupied in baking bread.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 286 Narrated by Umm Salamah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘If a woman dies
while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3254 Narrated by Anas ibn Malik
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "When a
woman observes the five times of prayer, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her
chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 278 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘The most perfect
Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behaviour; and the best
among you are those who behave best towards their wives.’
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
Wister