Husband insists wife Lie.
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Assalaam
alaikum brother,
May
Allah Almighty reward you for your wonderful Dawah work.Ameen and may we be
neighbours in Al-Firdous.Ameen!
My
qs-my husband insists that i work ...i dont really mind working.but he insists
that to get a suitable job,a lie has to be added in the cv regarding work experience.im
totally against this ..but we have a lot of loans that have to be repaid.and
the person who is helping me get this job who is in this particular company
says that everyone who gets a job there is either highly influential or has a
long list of lies written in his cv and there is no way i stand a chance if i
dont add this one experience (which i dont actually have).my husband threatens
me all the time about leaving me and is rather fed up of me i think because
since the last couple of years ie 2-3 i have become Alhamdulillah more aware of
my duties as a muslim and hence a more practicing muslim(Alhamdulillah wa shukr
Allah) plz advise me as soon as possible.
jazakhALLAh
khair.your sister in Al-Islam.
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Answer:
Husband insists wife
Lie
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Messengers.
May Allah Subhanah reward you with the best of this world
and the Hereafter for your kind comments of encouragement for our humble
efforts in the propagation of the Truth.
If our humble and modest efforts have helped even one brother or sister
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indeed fortunate to have been given this opportunity by the Lord Most Merciful
to serve in His Cause. We hope, beg, and
pray the Merciful Lord accepts our humble and weak efforts, forgives us our
shortcomings, and saves you, us, and all the believers from the torment of the
Hell Fire. Ameen.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah
Nisaa verse 135:
135 O ye who believe! Stand out firmly for justice as witnesses to Allah
even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be
(against) rich or poor: for Allah can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts) lest ye
swerve and if ye distort or decline to do justice, verily Allah is
well-acquainted with all that ye do.
Dear and beloved
Sister in Islam, even if the whole world is lying to earn a few pennies
more….it would simply not behove and befit a believer who sincerely believes in
Allah and the Last Day to intentionally declare a lie…..you should explain your
stance of righteousness to you husband with extreme patience and wisdom and
politely but firmly decline to give a false statement on your application.
If your husband still insists upon you to declare the lie,
you would not obey this particular command of your husband, and there would be
no sin upon you…..
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3696 Narrated by An-Nawwas ibn Sam'an
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "A
creature is not to be obeyed when it involves disobedience to the
Creator."
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan