And i had sexual intercourse with a prostitute...i honestly did not enjoy it...not a single second...and i regret it today and everyday.
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i would like to thank you for all the info your website has given me....
inshallah..it will help me in becoming a better muslim...
Some
time back when i was about 16-17ish a couple of my friends decided to go for
prostitutes....and i thought they were just kidding around...so i agreed to tag
along....after we reached the place i did not in any way want to indulge in
such activities...but was forced by friends...kinda
i was in complete control of my decisions...but i felt like i was been
preasured by my friends as i had agreed to come along....i dont blame them but
partly i do..because i would have never ever come at such a place and dont
intend to in the future..
And i had sexual intercourse with a prostitute...i honestly did not enjoy
it...not a single second...and i regret it today and everyday.....
Im not
a regular namazii and nowadays i`ve stopped completly..and neither do i read
the quran lately.....now i know thats wrong....and i should ask for forgiveness
for what i have done....but what im not sure of is...that if i didnt enjoy any
of it...and what counts is the intension which i obviously didnt have of doing
such a thing....would it still be considered as an act of zina? and please
explain to me abt "whure" or "hure"..i think thats what its
calld..
thank
you
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Answer:
Sin zina prostitute
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32:
Do not even go
near ‘zina’ (fornication or adultery) for it is a
very indecent thing and a very evil way!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah
Aaraaf verse 33:
33 Say (O Prophet (saws)): ‘The things that my Lord hath indeed
(absolutely) forbidden (declared ‘haraam’) are: shameful deeds whether
open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning
of partners to Allah for which he hath given no authority; and saying things
about Allah of which ye have no knowledge.
Your
Question: ....but what im not sure of is...that if i didnt enjoy any of
it...and what counts is the intension which i obviously didnt have of doing
such a thing....would it still be considered as an act of zina?
Dear and beloved brother in Islam, absolutely regardless
of who, why, and under what circumstances one indulged in and committed the
heinous abomination of illegal sexual intercourse with a woman to whom one is
not legally married….absolutely regardless of whether one claims one enjoyed
the unlawful experience or not…..absolutely regardless of whether one intended
to indulge in this abomination of ‘zina’ or not……as long as one committed
illegal sexual intercourse with a woman out of marriage, one would be guilty of
the abomination and heinous crime and sin of ‘zina’ in the Sight of Allah
Subhanah; and one dies in a state whereby one has not sought sincere
forgiveness for their manifest transgression of the Laws and Boundaries of
Allah Subhanah, one would have an unbearably severe accounting in the Presence
of their Lord Most Majestic Most Supreme on that Inevitable Day of Judgment.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 25 Surah Furqaan verses 63-71:
The (true) servants of
the Merciful are those who walk humbly on the earth. When the ignorant people behave insolently
towards them, they say, “Peace to you”; (And those) who pass their nights in
prostrating themselves and standing before their Lord and pray, “O our Lord,
save us from the torment of Hell, for its torment is killing! It is an evil abode, and an evil resting
place”. (And those) who, when they spend
are neither extravagant, nor miserly, but keep the golden mean between the two
extremes. (And those) who do not invoke
any god but Allah Alone, nor kill a soul unjustly, which Allah has forbidden, nor
commit ‘zina’… He who does this shall be punished for his
sin, and his torment shall be doubled on
the Day of Resurrection, and he shall
abide (therein) in a state of ignominy; except the one who may have
repented (after those sins) and have believed and done righteous deeds. For then, Allah will change his evil deeds
into good deeds, and He is very Forgiving and Merciful. In fact, one who repents and does righteous
deeds, returns to Allah as one rightly should!
Dear and beloved brother, one may be able to convince the
world and even one’s own self that one committed illegal sexual intercourse
only because one was put in a certain situation and condition by some unscrupulous
and evil people, or that one had absolutely no intention of committing ‘zina’,
or that one did not enjoy the unlawful experience, etc…..but we absolutely
assure you in the Blessed Name of the Majestic Lord, the guidance of Islam has
placed a categorical and absolute zero-level tolerance on the vilest of crimes
and transgression called ‘zina’….and absolutely regardless of who, what, why,
how, etc….if one indulged in the evil and heinous abomination and crime of
illegal sexual intercourse with a woman out of marriage, one would be guilty of
the crime of ‘zina’ in the Sight and Court of Allah Subhanah on the Day of
Judgment!
My dear and beloved brother in Islam, whatever deeds one
might have done the past in one’s ignorance,
if one turns to Allah Subhanah in sincere Taubah and seeks forgiveness
before one is faced with one’s appointment of death, the Lord Most Merciful has
promised in His Holy Quran that He will forgive all the sins of such a
believer, even if one has committed the
gravest sin of all: ‘Shirk’!
The conditions or ways to seek sincere Taubah or
Repentance from the Merciful Lord are:
- One
is aware that he has sinned, and
feels sorry and ashamed at his sin.
- Makes
a solemn covenant and promise with Allah that he will not repeat his sin
again.
- Turns
to Allah and seeks forgiveness,
before he has met with his appointment of death.
- Is
a believer and does righteous good deeds thereafter.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah
Zumur verses 53-54:
(O Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged
their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s Mercy! Surely,
Allah forgives all sins. He
indeed is the All Forgiving, All
Merciful. Return to your Lord and
submit to Him before the scourge overtakes you;
for then you may get no help from anywhere.”
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale
Imraan verse 135-136:
Allah likes such good people very much,
who, if ever they commit a base deed or
wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their
shortcomings. For who, but Allah,
can forgive sins? (And Allah
loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from
Allah, and with Gardens beneath which
canals flow, and they will reside
therein forever! How excellent is the
reward of those who do good deeds!
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah
Anaam verse 54:
When those come to you who believe in Our
Signs, say: "Peace be on you! Your Lord had inscribed for Himself (the rule
of) Mercy. Verily if any of you did evil
in ignorance, and thereafter repented
and amended (his conduct), Lo! He is
Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2357 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Mas'ud
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "He who
repents of a sin is like him who has committed no sin."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2338 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Umar
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah
accepts a servant's repentance (taubah) till he gives up his spirit in
death."
Beloved brother in Islam, we absolutely assure you in the
Blessed Name of the Lord Most Majestic, Most High that if one who has indulged
in and committed the evil and heinous crime and abomination of ‘zina’ does not
seek sincere repentance from their Lord for their manifest transgression before
they meet with their appointment of death, their accounting and punishment in
the Presence of their Lord Most Supreme will be unimaginably unbearable and
severe and lasting!
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan