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One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:

1)_Does women have mani

2)_Should a women perform Gusl if her spouse does not enter her vagina

3)_How can i know that my wife is sexually satisfied.Pls explain

4)_Does women have ejaculation like men.

5)_Can my wife swallow my madhi and mani

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Answer:

Sexual discharge women

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Q-1: Does women have mani

Q-4: Does women have ejaculation like men.

Sahih Muslim Hadith 608 Narrated by Umm Sulaym

Umm Sulaym asked the Messenger of Allah (saws) about a woman who sees in a dream what a man sees (sexual or wet dream). The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: ‘In case a woman experiences a ‘wet-dream’, she must perform a ‘ghusl’.’ Umm Sulaym said: ‘I was bashful on account of that and said: ‘Does a woman get discharge?’ Upon this the Messenger of Allah (saws) said: ‘Yes (it does happen), otherwise how can ( a child) resemble its mother? The man's sexual discharge is thick and white, and the (sexual) discharge of woman is thin and yellow ; so the resemblance comes from the one whose genes prevail or dominate.’

In light of the above authentic narration, it is evident that a woman too can experience a full sexual discharge or ‘mani’.

Q-2: Should a women perform Gusl if her spouse does not enter her vagina

Sahih Muslim Hadith 684 Narrated byAbu Musa

There cropped up a difference of opinion between a group of Muhajirs (Emigrants) and a group of Ansar (Helpers) (and the point of dispute was) that the Ansar said: ‘The ‘ghusl’ (full bath) becomes obligatory only when the semen spurts out or ejaculates.’ But the Muhajirs said: ‘When a man has sexual intercourse (with the woman), a ‘ghusl’ (full bath) becomes obligatory (no matter whether or not there is seminal emission or ejaculation).’ AbuMusa said: Well, I shall satisfy you on this (issue). He (AbuMusa, the narrator) said: ‘I stood up, (went) to Aisha and sought her permission which was granted. I said to her: :O Mother of the Faithful, I want to ask you about a matter about which I feel shy.” She said: “Don't feel shy of asking me about a thing which you can ask your mother who gave birth to you, for I too am your mother.” Upon this I said: “What makes a ‘ghusl’ obligatory for a person?” She replied: “You have come across one who is well informed! The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: “When the private parts (of the man and the woman) touch each other. a ‘ghusl’ becomes obligatory.”’

Two acts during the process of sexual intercourse makes ‘ghuls’ obligatory:

1. The release of ‘semen’ or full sexual discharge of the man or the woman.
2. Regardless of whether one enters the other or not, regardless of whether one has a full sexual discharge or not, if the private organ of the man has merely even touched the private organ of the woman….a ‘ghusl’ or full bath of purification would be obligatory upon both the man and the woman before they make themselves available for prayer.

Q-3:How can i know that my wife is sexually satisfied. Pls explain

Satisfaction is but an intimate feeling and there are no visible or tangible signs to determine whether one has sexually satisfied one’s spouse or not; thus if one has a doubt, or one fears that one’s spouse might not be satisfied, one should seek an opportune moment and honestly and frankly confirm with their spouse.

Q-5): Can my wife swallow my madhi and mani

To derive pleasure by touching ones spouse’s private parts with the mouth is what is known as ‘oral sex’.

Such an act is obviously unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean, impure and this act is not found even in any of the lower animate creations!

Because oral sex is a new deviation of mankind, it finds specific mention neither in the Quran nor the Sunnah!

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah Aaraaf verse 157:

157 Those who follow the Messenger, the ‘Ummi’ (unlettered) Prophet (Mohammed (saws)) whom they find mentioned in their own (Scriptures); in the Law and the Gospel; for he (Prophet Mohamed (saws)) commands them what is just and forbids them what is evil: he allows them as lawful what is ‘tayyibaat’ (good and pure) and prohibits them from what is ‘Khabaayith’ (bad, evil and impure); He releases them from their heavy burdens and from the yokes that are upon them. So it is those who believe in him, honor him, help him, and follow the Light which is sent down with him: it is they who will prosper."

But since the permissibility/impermissibility of this specific act of what is known today as ‘oral sex’ is not mentioned by name or act anywhere in the Quran and the Sunnah, the God-fearing and the pious amongst the scholars in Islam have abstained from declaring it ‘haraam’; the majority of the scholars have said that the act is from amongst the ‘khabaaith’ (impure) and thus closer to the haraam than to the halaal, and the believers should fear Allah and abstain from it.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.267 Narrated by An Numan bin Bashir

The Prophet (saws) said "Both the halaal (lawful) and the haraam (unlawful) things are (made) obvious, and in between them are (suspicious) doubtful matters. So whoever forsakes those doubtful things lest he may commit a sin, will definitely avoid what is clearly unlawful; and whoever indulges in these (suspicious) doubtful things bravely, is likely to commit what is clearly illegal. Sins are Allah's Hima (i.e. private pasture) and whoever pastures (his sheep) near it, is likely to get in it at any moment."

Beloved brother in Islam, given the unbelievable liberty Islam has granted to the husband and the wife to enjoy conjugal relations in their sacred bond of marriage, in our humble opinion, it would be best for the believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day to strive to abstain from this doubtful act of ‘oral sex’; and Allah Alone Knows Best. One who sincerely fears Allah and the Last Day must abstain from touching the private organ of their spouse with their mouths, leave alone swallowing or consuming their sexual discharge!

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan