Why one cannot marry 2 sisters at same time?
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Asalam o Alaikum Burhan bhai,
may Allah reward you for your efforts. my question is
that is it allowed to have two sisters as wives at the same time. if not what is logic behind this.
Thanking you
your brother
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Why one cannot marry 2 sisters at same time?
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Your Question: my question is that is it allowed to have two sisters as wives at the same time. if not what is logic behind this.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 23:
Prohibited to you (for marriage) are: your mother, daughters,
sisters, father's sisters, mother's sisters, brother's daughters, sister's
daughters, foster-mothers (who gave you suck), foster-sisters, your wives' mothers, your step-daughters
under your guardianship born of your wives to whom ye have gone in; no
prohibition if ye have not gone in; (and those who have been) wives of your
sons proceeding from your loins, and two sisters in wedlock at one and
the same time except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most
Merciful.
Allah Subhanah, in His Supreme Wisdom and Knowledge, has forbidden the believers to have two sisters as his wives at one and the same time. There is no harm if one marries the sister of his wife after his wife’s death, or divorces one sister and marries the other; but it is forbidden by Allah Subhanah for a believer to have two sisters married to him at one and the same time.
It is only natural that when two women are married to the
same man, they
will strive and compete for the attention of the man; which may result in a natural level of
ill-will, competition, jealousy, etc. between the two wives. In many other Aayahs of the Quran, Allah Subhanah has
commanded to respect and revere the blood-relationships which Allah Subhanah
has created for mankind. And if two
sisters are married to the same man, it may be that they would compromise
the sacredness of their blood-relationship to each other in their natural
competition and jealousy for the attention of their husband, which would
directly affect their relationship as sisters.
In our humble opinion that seems the most probable wisdom behind the
command to forbid a believing man to marry two sisters at one and the same
time; and Allah Subhanah Alone Knows Best.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan