Friend seducing husband
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and Sisters,
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Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be
upon all of you)
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brothers/sisters has asked this question:
Asalamu Alaikum
Wahrahmatoulah wabarakatuh.
I have a friend who has great love of this world, goes to the night clubs, commits zina and has even been with married men. she has but been quite nice to me in times of difficulty and was there for me. Now i am married and i wear the hijab. i try to preach to her but to no avail, she knows she is in the wrong and knows Allah does not like the things she does, yet she feels she has no will power to stop.
The thing is, she
comes to my house and once touched my husband on his knee, i saw it but was
quiet and since then have come to dislike her. the other day she came to my
house and my husband was holding a banana to eat. she looked at him and said
can i have some of your banana. everyone laughed, i know what she was really
refering to. she is that kind of person, carefree.
i no longer want to be her friend anymore but i am afraid that Allah wants me
to continue to talk to her and preach to her, but i don`t want her to come to
my house, be near me, my husband and chid. it has come to be so bad that i have
had two night mares about this.
is it possible for
you to interpret it for me inshallah?
The first one, i
was touching my husband`s private part and she came and was trying to see it
and i was trying struggling to hide it from her seeing it and she was saying
that she wanted some of it. the second night mare, i was making love to my
husband and she was pulling him to go to her. INshaallah, if these dreams are
bad ones, please tell me of a dua to say to protect me and my husband from the
evil of these dreams. i did feel the touch of semen in the second dream but am
not sure if i had seen it.
should i stay with
her or should i leave her even though i don`t want her in my house again.
Please adivise me and my Allah reward you for spending time to read this and
advice me. thank you.
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Answer:
Friend seducing husband
In the name of Allah, We praise
Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none
can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright.
We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai, nobody!) worthy of
worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His
slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Dear and beloved sister in
Islam, it would be best for you to
honorably distance yourself from this type of woman, before she becomes the cause of a trial between the sacred bond
and relationship of a husband and wife in a marriage.
The situation you have described
can escalate into a very dangerous trial for you and your husband; and there would be absolutely no sin upon
you if you distanced yourself from this woman.
Your dreams are self-explanatory
and do not require any interpretation whatsoever. You may consider them as a warning from the Merciful, seek His Help and Guidance, and take your precautions to guard you
against its evil.
You should use wisdom and
patience in distancing yourself from such types of people, because the last thing you want is the woman
trying to start an illicit and secret relationship with your husband behind
your back!
Constantly recite the 113th
and the 114th Surahs of the Quran (Surah Falaq and Surah Naas), and the following supplication from the Holy
Quran; and beseech Allah Subhanah constantly
in your prayers to protect you against all evil.
Allah Says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 173 (part):Hasbe-Allaho wa nehmal
Wakeel. (Sufficient is Allah for us,
and He is the Best Disposer of affairs.)
Whatever written of Truth and
benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error
is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He
is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in
Islam,
Burhan