Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)

One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:

Salam alaikum!

I do have a problem concerning the right of my husband in bed. For quite a time this has been very painful for me. I wonder if it is permissible for me to go and see a gynaecologist and if I may talk to her about my problem to find a solution. I really do want my husband to be pleased with me.

Inshallah you can help me.

Barakallahu feekum.

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Answer:

Seeking help from doctor

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

If you fear that you might have a medical condition which might concern the rights of your husband in bed, you are well within your rights in Islam to consult an expert in the field of medicine and seek a cure for your condition.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan