Diff between prayers of men and women.
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Jazakhallah Khair for you emails…, May Allah SWT reward you amptly for you
dawa… Dear brother, can you please
enlighten about the number of Rakhats in our Salah, I mean the Farz, Sunna
muwakkadah, Sunna na muwakkadah, Nafl, Wajib, Witr in our daily Salah and no.
of Rakhats for Jum'a for men and women (should women join the congregation, or
should she pray in her house). And Wajib salah for Idul-Fitra and Idul-Alha for
men and women, should women join the congregation, or should she pray in her
house… Is there a difference prescibed for men and women while performing
Salah? What I have heard and learnt is that for a women while praying… Her
feets need to be very close without any gap in between. She should not raise
her hands above her shoulders while saying takbeer After Rukoo, while standing,
she should not raise her hands up while saying takbeer, is this correct??
While
going for sujood, she should lie on her thighs and place her head very much
near her knees
Should
the elbows be placed on the ground or should it be elevated from touching the
ground During tashahhud, she should
cross her legs at the back…unlike men who should sit on their left leg and
should keep their right foot in their vertical position, the toes facing the
Qibla… During tashahhud lifting the
index finger and putting it down on and off, I mean lifting and putting it
down, lifting it again and putting it down, continue doing it untill the prayer
is complete… Is this correct? Or is this permissable?
Can you
also advise how men need to perform Salah… if feasible please advise all steps…
where he needs to be cautious and cannot be otherwise… For example, while
standing in prayer, should he place his hands on the navel or chest or on the
stomach… Please advise… in great detail…
I am
stressing much because, there are many books available which are carrying
different steps and methods. We would like to know the correct method of
performing Salah as per Sunnah of Rasulullah SAW…Salah being our 2 Piller of
Islam, would like to perfoming to the best of our ability, Insha Allah… So
please help brother...
I
would be much thankful to Allah SWT if he would remove my doubts concering
Salah, and if you could provide me a detailed explanation performing Salah,
please answer all my questions and like a very detailed answer to the
questions. Please respond as early as possible.
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Answer:
Diff between prayers
of men and women
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Your
Question: …..can you please enlighten about the number of Rakhats in our Salah,
I mean the Farz, Sunna muwakkadah, Sunna na muwakkadah, Nafl, Wajib, Witr in
our daily Salah
Firstly, please allow us to clarify the difference
between Fard, Sunnah and Nafl prayers.
Fard prayers: These are the five obligatory prayers at
their appointed times of the day. If one
prays them, he will earn a huge reward from Allah Subhanah; and if one does not
pray them, there will be a severe accounting and punishment.
Nafl prayers: These are the voluntary or non-obligatory
prayers. If one prays them, he will earn
a huge reward from Allah Subhanah; and if one does not pray them, there is no
sin.
Sunnah prayers: These are the Nafl or voluntary prayers
which were prayed by the Messenger of Allah (saws), and thus they become his
(saw’s) Sunnah for us. If one prays
them, he will earn a huge reward from Allah Subhanah; and if one does not pray them, there is no sin. The most that can be said of one who does
not pray the Sunnah prayers is that he lost a great opportunity to earn huge
rewards from Allah Subhanah.
The number of ‘rakahs’ of the five ‘fard’ or absolutely
obligatory prayers are:
- Fajr
– two ‘rakahs’.
- Dhuhr
– four ‘rakahs’.
- Asr
– four ‘rakahs’.
- Magrib
– three ‘rakahs’.
- Isha
– four ‘rakahs’.
All the other Sunnah or Nafl prayers are best offered in a
two-rakah combination, with the only exception being the ‘witr’ prayers which
should be offered in an odd-number of rakahs (1, 3, 5, 7, etc.).
Amongst the Sunnah prayers offered by the Prophet (saws),
the scholars of Jurisprudence have divided them into two categories:
- Sunnah
Muaqqeda
- Sunnah
Ghayr-Muaqqeda
Ref: Sunnah Muaqqeda:
The term
‘Muaqqeda’ itself means something which is stressed or emphasized. The non-obligatory prayers which were constantly
stressed and emphasized by the Messenger of Allah (saws) by his acts or his
words like the two rakahs before Fajr, four rakahs before and two rakahs after
Dhuhr, two rakahs after Magrib, two rakahs after Isha, the witr prayers, etc.
are known as Sunnah Muaqqeda or non-obligatory prayers which were almost always
offered by the Prophet (saws).
Ref: Sunnah Ghayr-Muaqqeda: The non-obligatory prayers which
were sometimes offered by the Prophet (saws) like two rakahs before Asr, or two
rakahs before Magrib, etc. are termed as Sunnah Ghayr-Muaqqeda.
Your Question: ….and
no. of Rakhats for Jum'a for men and women (should women join the congregation,
or should she pray in her house).
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 2.131a
Topic: Who are exempted from the obligatory
Friday mid-day prayers.
‘Salatul Jumuah’ is an obligation upon every
free, adult, sane, resident male believer who has the ability to attend the
‘salah’ and does not have a valid excuse to miss it. ‘Salatul Jumuah’ however,
is not obligatory on the following:
- Women.
- Children.
- The
person who is ill and faces hardship if he goes to the mosque, or who
fears that his illness will be increased by going to the mosque, or whose
recovery will be delayed. This also includes the person who is nursing a
very ill person, if especially, the ill person cannot manage in the
absence of the nursing person.
- For
the traveler. This is based on the fact that the Prophet (saws) traveled
and did not perform the ‘Salatul Jumuah’ but only prayed the ‘dhuhr’ and
'asr’ together during the time of the ‘dhuhr’ prayers.
- Environmental
restraints like extreme rain or cold, etc.
All of the above
listed people are not obliged to attend the ‘Salatul Jumuah’, but they would be
obliged to pray the ‘dhuhr’ prayers.
The Jumuah or Friday mid-day sermon and prayer in
congregation is absolutely obligatory upon every free, sane, resident male
believer who has the ability to attend the ‘salah’ and does not have an
extremely valid reason to miss it.
The Jumuah prayer in congregation is not obligatory upon
the believing woman, for her prayer offered at home are better and more
meritorious in the Sight of the Lord than her prayers in congregation in the
masjids…..but if the believing woman wishes to occasionally attend the
congregational prayers in the masjids, she is well within her rights to do so.
Abu Hurairah
relates that the Prophet (saws) said:
"Do not keep the slave girls of Allah (believing women) from going to the
‘Masjids’ of Allah. And they are to go
out unperfumed."
Ibn 'Umar reports
that the Prophet (saws) said: "Do
not prevent the women from going to the ‘Masjids’, although their (own) houses
are better for them."
Related by Ahmad
and Abu Dawud.
Umm Humaid
as-Sa'diyah (r.a.) came to the Messenger of Allah(saws) and said: "O Messenger of Allah (saws),
I love to pray with you (in congregation in the Masjid)." The Prophet (saws) said: "I am aware of that, but your
‘salah’ in your residence is better for you than your ‘salah’ in your people's
masjid. And your ‘salah’ in your
people's masjid is better than your ‘salah’ in the [larger] congregational
Masjids."
Related by Ahmad
and at-Tabarani
If one, regardless whether male or female, attends the
‘Jumuah’ sermon and prayer in congregation in the masjids, then they are to
offer only the two-rakah prayer with the ‘imaam’; and if one, regardless of
whether male or female, happens or chooses not to attend the Jumuah sermon and
prayer in the masjid, should offer a normal four-rakah ‘dhuhr’ prayer.
Your
Question: ….And Wajib salah for Idul-Fitra and Idul-Alha for men and women,
should women join the congregation, or should she pray in her house…
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 2.147
The prayers of the two Eids was prescribed in
the first year after the migration. The Messenger of Allah (saws) ordered the
believing men and women to go out to attend them.
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 2.148a
The Messenger of Allah (saws) guided women
and children to go out and attend the two Eid prayers alond with the men. This
includes married, single, young, old, or menstruating women.
Umm 'Atiyah reports: "We were ordered to
go out with the single and menstruating women to the two Eids in order to
witness the good and the supplications of the Muslims. The menstruating women
would be separate from the others."
Related by al-Bukhari and Muslim.
Ibn Abbas says that the Prophet (saws) would
take his wives and daughters to the two Eids.
Related by Ibn-Majah and al-Baihaqi.
Ibn 'Abbas reports: "I went out with the
Prophet (saws) on the day of breaking the fast (Eidul-Fitr) or of the sacrifice
(Eidul-Adha), and he (saws) prayed and gave a sermon, and then he (saws) went
to the women and admonished them, reminded them of Allah, and ordered them to
give charity."
Related by al-Bukhari.
The Messenger of Allah (saws) guided and commanded the
believing men, women and children to attend the Eid prayers in congregation,
including women who were married, single, young, or old, menstruating or
non-menstruating. The non-menstruating
women should offer the Eid prayers in congregation and listen to the sermon
proceeding it, while the non-menstruating women should obviously abstain from
offering the Eid prayer, but listen to the Eid sermon proceeding the prayer.
Your
Question: Is there a difference prescibed for men and women while performing Salah?
The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: ‘Pray as
you have seen me pray’.
Related by Al-Bukhari.
Regardless of whether one is a male or a female, there is
only one way to perform the rite of prayer….and that way is the one that was
offered by the Noble Messenger of Allah (saws) who guided the believers, men
and women alike, to ‘‘Pray as you have seen me
pray’.
There is a mention of some
companions like Hadrat Abdullah ibn Umar (r.a.) who asked his women to crouch
close to their bodies when performing the ‘rukoo’ and ‘sujood’ while praying in
public, so that they would be able to honor their ‘satr’ in a better manner,
and thus their curves while bending would not be very obvious to the non-mehram
men, if they were around. But that
guidance from the scholar and companion of the stature of Hadrat Abdullah ibn
Umar (r.a.) would not in any way effect or contradict the guidance of the
Messenger of Allah (saws) for the believing men and women alike: ‘Pray as you have seen me pray.’
Your
Question: ….Her feets need to be very close without any gap in between.
The Sunnah when standing in the ‘qiyaam’ in prayers,
regardless of whether one is a male or a female, is to stand in a natural
posture with a little space between one’s legs.
Your
Question: ….She should not raise her hands above her shoulders while saying
takbeer
To raise one’s hands when declaring the ‘takbeer’ at the
start of one’s prayers, regardless of whether one is a male or a female, is a
Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (saws) and a ‘wajib’ rite of prayer.
Your Question: After
Rukoo, while standing, she should not raise her hands up while saying takbeer,
is this correct??
There is a difference of opinion amongst the scholars
whether or not the Messenger of Allah (saws) raised his hands when declaring
the ‘takbeer’ when going to and standing up from the ‘ruku’ posture….and the
truth is that there is evidence in the authentic and established Sunnah for
both: raising the hands, and not raising the hands.
Reported Ibn 'Umar, "When the Prophet
(saws) stood to pray, he would raise his hands until they were the same height
as his shoulders and then he would make the takbir. When he wanted to bow, he would again raise
his hands in a similar fashion. When he
raised his head from the bowing, he did the same and said, 'Allah hears him who
praises Him.' (Related by al-Bukhari, Muslim and al-Baihaqi.)
Reported bn Mas'ud : "I prayed with the
Prophet (saws) and he raised his hands only once (at the beginning of
prayer)."
Related by At-Tirmidhi.
Thus if a believer, regardless of whether male or female,
today gives weight to the narration reported by Hadrat Ibn Umar (r.a.) and
practices ‘Rafayadain’ (raising one’s hands) in the beginning of prayer as well
in their movements, their intention
being to follow the Sunnah of the Prophet (saws), it is fine.
And if a believer giving weight to the narration reported by Hadrat Ibn
Masud (r.a.), prays by practicing
‘Rafayadain’ only at the beginning of prayer, their intention also being to
follow the Sunnah of the Prophet (saws),
that too is fine and acceptable…..for there is evidence for both in the
authentic and established Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (saws).
Your
Question: ….While going for sujood, she should lie on her thighs and place her
head very much near her knees
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 1.773 Narrated by Abdullah Ibn Abbas
The Prophet said: ‘I have been ordered (by
Allah) to prostrate on seven parts; they are: ‘the forehead, (the tip of) the nose, both hands, both
knees, and (toes of) both feet.’
Provided all the seven parts of the body touch the ground
during the prostration, if the believing woman fears the presence of non-mehram
men around her and places her forehead closer to her knees in prostration to
better protect and honor her ‘satr’, there is absolutely no harm.
Your
Question: Should the elbows be placed on the ground or should it be elevated
from touching the ground
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 1.509 Narrated by Anas
The Prophet (saws) said, "Do the
prostration properly, and do not put your forearms flat with elbows touching
the ground like a dog.’
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 1.785 Narrated byAnas bin Malik
The Prophet (saws) said, "Be straight in
the prostrations and none of you should put his forearms on the ground (in the
prostration) like a dog."
What is specifically and categorically prohibited is
placing the forearms flat with elbows touching the ground while performing the
prostration; and the Sunnah or practice of the Messenger of Allah (saws) would
be to place his palms on the ground with his elbows jutting outwards when
performing the prostration.
Your
Question: During tashahhud, she should cross her legs at the back…unlike men
who should sit on their left leg and should keep their right foot in their
vertical position, the toes facing the Qibla…
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 1.791 Narrated by Muhammad bin Amr bin Ata
I was sitting with some of the companions of
Allah's Messenger (saws) and we were discussing about the way of praying of the
Prophet (saws). Abu Humaid As-Saidi said, "I remember the prayer of
Allah's Messenger (saws) better than any one of you. I saw him raising both his
hands up to the level of the shoulders on saying the Takbir; and on bowing he
placed his hands on both knees and bent his back straight, then he stood up straight
from bowing till all the vertebrae took their normal positions. In
prostrations, he placed both his hands on the ground with the forearms away
from the ground and away from his body, and his toes were facing the Qibla. On sitting after the second Rak'a he sat
on his left foot and propped up the right one; and in the last Rak'a he pushed
his left foot forward and kept the other foot propped up and sat over the
buttocks."
To the best of our knowledge there is no specific guidance
in the authentic and established Sunnah for the believing woman to sit for
their ‘tashahud’ in prayer any different than the believing men.
Your
Question: During tashahhud lifting the index finger and putting it down on and
off, I mean lifting and putting it down, lifting it again and putting it down,
continue doing it untill the prayer is complete… Is this correct? Or is this
permissable?
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.157
Ibn 'Umar reported that when the Prophet
(saws) sat for the tashahud, he (saws) would place his left hand on his left
knee and his right hand upon his right knee, and he would form a ring like
(fifty-three) and point with his index finger. In another narration it is
reported, "He would close his hand and point with his index finger."
(Related by Muslim.)
Wa'il ibn Hajr reported that the Prophet
(saws) would place his left palm on his left thigh and knee. He would place the
end of his right elbow upon his right thigh and would then close his right
hand, forming a circle. When reciting the ‘shahaadah’, he (saws) would make a
circle with his middle finger and thumb and point with his index finger.
(Related by Ahmad.)
Reported az-Zubair, "When the Prophet
(saws) sat for ‘tashahud’, he would place his right hand on his right thigh and
his left hand on his left thigh. He would point with his index finger, and
would not look beyond his pointing."
(Related by Ahmad, Muslim and anNasa'i.)
The raising of the index finger when reciting the
‘shahaadah’ in the ‘tashahud’ in prayer is a Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah
(saws).
Your
Question: …For example, while standing in prayer, should he place his hands on
the navel or chest or on the stomach…
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.131
Said Sahl ibn Sa'd, "The people were
ordered to place their right hand on their left forearm during prayers." (Related by Bukhari and Muslim)
Al-Hafez related that the Prophet (saws)
said, "All prophets have been ordered to hasten the breaking of the fast
and to delay the (pre-fast dawn) meal, and to place our right hands on our left
during prayer."
Jabir narrated that "The Prophet (saws) passed by a man
praying with his left hand over his right, and (the Prophet (saws)) pulled them
away and put his right over his left." (Related by Ahmad.)
Thus, in light of the above guidance what is absolutely
certain is that the Messenger of Allah (saws) would hold his hands while in the
state of ‘qiyaam’ in prayer.
Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh 1.132
Sunnah acts of prayer, The Position of the
Hands
Al-Kamal ibn al-Hamam is of the opinion,
"There is no authentic hadith stating that one must place the hands under
the chest or below the navel. According to the Hanifiyyah school of thought,
the hands are to be placed below the navel, and according to the Shafiyyah
school of thought below the chest. Ahmad has two narrations corresponding to
these two opinions. The correct position is somewhere in the middle - to be
equal."
Observes at-Tirmidhi, "Knowledgeable
companions, their followers and those that came after them believed that one
should put his right hand over the left during prayer, while some say above the
navel and others say below the navel..." Nevertheless, there do exist
hadith that the Prophet (saws) placed his hands on his chest. Reported Hulb
at-Ta'i, "I saw the Prophet (saws) praying with his right hand over his
left upon his chest above the elbow." This is related by Ahmad and
at-Tirmidhi, who grades it as hassan.
Reported Wa'il ibn Hajr, "Once when I
prayed with the Prophet (saws) and he placed his right hand over his left upon
his chest." The report is recorded by Ibn Khuzaimah, who considers it as
sahih, and by Abu Dawud and an-Nasa'i with the wording, "Then he put his
right hand over the back of his left wrist and forearm."
Depending on which narration one wishes to give weight to,
there is indeed a difference of opinion amongst the scholars and the major
schools of thought regarding where exactly did the Prophet (saws) placed his
hands when in the state of ‘qiyaam’ in prayer. In light of the above guidance
and opinion of the eminent scholars, if one holds ones hands anywhere between
one’s navel and one’s chest, it would be acceptable and in accordance with the
Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (saws). And Allah Alone Knows Best.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan