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Assalamu alaikom

My friend is newly married  she is very talkative  so her hubby often says meri maa chup bait........

he used the word maa (mother)  is the nikah invalid by saying this word to one's wife?

Husband masturbates in sleep.  is there any duaa or anything in sunnah to stop this act. 

thanks

jazakallah 

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Answer:

Does calling wife mother invalidate nikaah

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Your Question: ….my friend is newly married  she is very talkative  so her hubby often says meri maa chup bait................

he used the word maa (mother)  is the nikah invalid by saying this word to one's wife?

If perchance a husband happens to call or address his wife as ‘his mother’, it is merely a saying of his mouth and has absolutely no bearing on their relationship as a husband and wife, nor does it effect the validity of their marriage in the absolute least.

Your Question: ….husband masturbates in sleep.  is there any duaa or anything in sunnah to stop this act. 

If one intentionally ‘masturbates’, indeed that would be a sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah; but if one happens to experience a ‘wet-dream’ or an unintentional sexual discharge during one’s sleep, it is only natural and there is absolutely no sin.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan