Does name effect behavior.
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Salam
my nieces name is Fa`eezah Zia, and i was wondering if this name is okay as she
keeps getting hurt:(falls and bumps) and we were told it sometimes has to do
with the name. Should we change it if so is the name Maliaka or Ammarah okay
and if possible can you suggest any good names please.
Jazzak allah
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Answer:
Does name effect
behavior
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness
that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
The only names which Islam prohibits from assigning to a
believer are names which connote or denote polytheism or disbelief (eg.
Abdul-Lat, Abdul-Uzza, (slaves of the pagan gods like Lat and Uzza, etc.) or
names like Ramdas (slave of the Hindu god Ram), etc.; or names which have an
inherit evil or vile meaning.
Other than names which connote polytheism and disbelief,
or names which have an inherently evil meaning….Islam has allowed the believers
the complete freedom to chose and assign any good wholesome name in any
language they will and please.
A name assigned to each individual is no more than a sign
or recognition of that person; and the name itself has absolutely no bearing or
relation to what happens or does not happen to that person.
We absolutely assure you in the Blessed Name of Allah
Subhanah that afflictions and trials do not befall an individual because of the
‘quality’ of one’s assigned name….The literal meaning of the name ‘Faeezah’ is
one who is successful , and ‘Zia’ is one who is wise….thus ‘Faeezah Zia’ is an
absolutely acceptable name in Islam….. and there is absolutely no need or
reason to change it.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan