Now when the time to divorce , nothing of the above required.. can u explain whats the hikmah behind this ?
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
this question:
Just
wanted to clarify,Islam says that there is always a Hikmah behind every thing
in Islam. A guy comes proposes & gets married. For Nikah u have
conditions.There should be 2 witnesses.The guardian consent should be taken.
Now when the time to divorce , nothing of the above required.. can u explain
whats the hikmah behind this ? if a person is taking women/Men as a life
partner they both have to say yes at point of Nikah then y at divorce Men can
say talaq & thats also without any witnesses or anyother ritual?
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Answer:
Wisdom behind
declaration of divorce
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Indeed, every single law and command in Islam is based on
the Perfect and Absolute Knowledge and Wisdom of the Lord Who Created; and one
would be hard-pressed to find a guidance, or law, or command in Islam which is
not overflowing with wisdom and justice.
The reason and wisdom behind the prescription of the
availability of witnesses in Islam when one enters into a financial contract,
or in marriage, or when one accuses another of a crime, etc. is to mitigate the
risk of the other party in the contract if one of the participants denies the
contract or transaction or crime ever took place!
For example, if a couple were to marry without the
presence of witnesses, the man would very well fulfill his desire with the
woman on the first night of marriage and claim the very next day that neither
does he know the woman, nor was there any marriage contract that took place
between them! But if there were
witnesses present to the marriage contract, the man would not dare to disown
the contract.
Similarly, the husband is to bear the complete financial
cost of the wedding and also pay the determined ‘mehr’ to his wife at the time
of nikaah….after that substantial financial costs borne by the husband and
after accepting the ‘mehr’, the wife were to simply declare on the very first
night of marriage that neither does she know the man, nor was there any
marriage that took place between them….without the presence of witnesses to the
marriage contract, the husband would be hard pressed to prove that a marriage
took place between the two!
Thus the availability of witnesses is absolutely essential
and obligatory when one enters into a marriage contract, so that the rights of
both parties are protected.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verse 237:
237 And if ye divorce them before consummation but after the fixation of
a dower for them then the half of the dower (is due to them) unless they remit
it. Or (the man's half) is remitted by
him in whose hands is the marriage tie; and the remission (of the man's
half) is the nearest to righteousness.
And do not forget liberality between yourselves. For Allah sees well all that ye do.
Allah Subhanah has placed the ‘marriage ties’ in the hands
of the husband in a marriage; and although there is no harm if one were to take
witnesses at the time of divorce, the presence of witnesses is not obligatory
when a divorce is declared by the husband in Islam. The reason behind this allowance is because if
the man pronounces a divorce upon his wife, and the wife claims in court that
the husband did not pronounce a divorce declaration upon her, the husband has
the option of simply pronouncing another divorce upon his wife in court….and a
divorce between the couple will be duely established.
Alternatively if the wife seeks an end to the marriage and
goes to court and falsely claims that her husband has pronounced a divorce upon
her when he hasn’t, the husband has the right to revoke the divorce in Shariah.
Thus in both situations, the need to call witnesses would
simply not arise in cases of divorce.
The situation is very similar to the process when one
seeks entry into a college, or the army, or even a job….where the understanding
between the two parties at the outset is that at the time of joining the
consent of both parties (the college and the student; the army and the soldier;
the employer and the employee) is needed….but if one party, for any reason
wishes to terminate or opt out of the college, or the army, or the job…one
simply needs to declare that one no longer wishes to remain with them and that
would suffice to terminate their union.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan