Most of our muslim families are celebrating BIRTHDAY`S. Could u pls explain us in detail with the reference`s of Hadeeth & Quran.
Assalamalaykum
Dear
Brother,
Most
of our muslim families are celebrating BIRTHDAY`S. Could u pls explain us in
detail with the reference`s of
Hadeeth
& Quran. Or is it possible to celebrate only with the family no big
function`s. If we celebrate with family what should be our niyah. Or is it
completely against ISLAM.
pls
explain in details. Awaiting for your reply
Thanks
ALLAH
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Answer:
Is celebrating birthdays lawful
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Every people have a culture and Islam too has its own
culture; and celebrating or commemorating one’s birthday or anniversary with a
feast or a party cannot be considered a part of Islamic culture. Islam guides towards the notion that every
single day one is blessed to be alive is a day of celebration and a cause to be
grateful and thankful to the Lord Creator for his innumerable blessings and
favors. Besides, Islam has nominated its
own special days of joyous commemoration and celebration, namely the two
blessed days of Eid (Fitr and Adha) and every Friday of the week.
If one celebrates one’s birthday or anniversary with a
feast or a party amongst loved ones, cuts a cake, lights candles, sings the
nominated song ‘Happy Birthday to you…..’, gives presents, etc.; one cannot say
with conviction that this rite or ritual has a religious connotation…..but
without an iota of a doubt, this rite and ritual of celebrating birthdays
and/or anniversaries is an imitation of the unbelievers; and it definitely does
not behove and befit a believer who sincerely believes in Allah and the Last
Day to imitate the pagans or their rituals in any matter whatsoever!
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.780 Narrated by Nafi
Ibn Umar reported that the Prophet (saws)
said, "Do the opposite of what the pagans do!”
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 4020 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Umar
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘He who copies any
people is one of them.’
If one trusts, obeys, and follows the guidance and commands
of Allah and His Messenger (saws), one
can be assured of never ever being misled;
but if one believes, obeys and follows any other guidance, other than
that of Allah and His Messenger (saws), one can be assured of being led
astray.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan