Hadith best amongst u is one who is best to his wives.
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Is there any hadees authentic that good muslims should
have good akhlaq and among these good muslims those are best who are good to
their wives . could you give the real reference and exact hadith.
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Answer:
Hadith best amongst
u is one who is best to his wives
In the name of Allah,
We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides
none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them
aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone,
and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of
His Messengers.
Respected brother in Islam, just
as being a Muslim and having belief are inseparable, so is being a Muslim and
excellent ‘akhlaaq’ (good character, manners, modesty, etc.)!!!! One cannot over-emphasize the importance and
significance of possessing and developing excellent ‘akhlaaq’ in Islam and in
the Scales of Allah Subhanah!
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
628 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws)
said: ‘Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one
whose character is excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their
wives well.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
3252 Narrated by Aisha ; Abdullah
ibn Abbas
Allah's Messenger
(saws) said, "The best of you is he who is best to his family, and I am
the best among you to my family.”
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 8.61 Narrated by Masruq
We were sitting
with 'Abdullah bin 'Amr who was narrating to us (Hadith). He said that the
Messenger of Allah (saws) said: 'The best among you are the best in character
(having good manners).' "
Al-Muwatta Hadith
47.8
Yahya related from
Malik that he had heard that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said: "I was
sent to perfect good character."
Al-Muwatta Hadith
47.9
Yahya related from
Malik from Salama ibn Safwan ibn Salama az-Zuraqi that Zayd ibn Talha ibn
Rukana, who attributed it to the Prophet (saws) said, "The Messenger of
Allah said: 'Every deen has an innate character. The character of Islam is
modesty.' "
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
4832 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
Allah's Messenger (saws)
said, "Do you know the things which most commonly brings people into
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
631 Narrated by Jabir ibn Abdullah
The Prophet (saws)
said: On the Day of Judgment the dearest and closest to me, as regards my
company, will be those persons who will bear the best moral character. Those
among you, who talk with affectation and are given to boasting, will be the
most repugnant to me and farthest from me on the Day of Judgment.’
Sunan of Abu-Dawood
Hadith 4782 Narrated by Abu Umamah
The Prophet (saws)
said: ‘I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids
quarrelling even if he were in the right; a house in the middle of Paradise for
a man who avoids lying even if he were joking; and a house in the upper part of
Paradise for a man who made his character good.’
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 5.104 Narrated by Abdullah
bin Amr
Allah's Messenger
(saws) neither talked in an insulting manner nor did he ever speak evil
intentionally. He (saws) used to say, "The most beloved to me amongst you
is the one who has the best character and manners."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood
Hadith 4781 Narrated by Abud Darda
The Prophet (saws)
said: ‘There is nothing heavier than good character put in the Scale of a
believer on the Day of Resurrection.’
Sunan of Abu-Dawood
Hadith 4780 Narrated by Aisha, Ummul
Mu'minin
The Messenger of
Allah (saws) said: ‘By his good character a believer will attain the degree of
one who prays during the night and fasts during the day.’
Whatever written of
Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever
of error is of me alone. Allah Alone
Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
Wister