Marrying in mosque
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Assalaam Allaikum Wrt Brt
I am regular visitor to read your conclusions and fatwas regarding
Various Islamic Issues. thaks I can understand that its good effort you have
put in thanks . I also understadn that all your opinions are based on only
Quran and Hadiths as you or your imam has interpreted for u . I know u do not
follow any madhab which is following an Imam, in your Imams view its is Bida or
mis guidance.
My question is regaridng the Question No. 417-2758: Sunnah way of
Nikaah which one of th ebrothers has sked here .You have mentioned everything
regarding Nikah in hadith and Quran thanks ,BUt hte Brother who is asking this
question says that marrying in mosque is Prophetic (pbuh) sunna ..May be I dont
know if this is sunna to marry in mosque or someone has wisely introduced this
practice in islaam in the name of sunna.
Please can you give any authentic hadith declaring this as a sunna
or reference in quran
Thanks
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Answer:
Marrying
in mosque
In the
name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness.
Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray,
none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no
person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai, nobody!) worthy of
worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His
slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your Statement: know u do not follow any madhab which is following
an Imam, in your Imams view its is Bida or mis guidance.
Dear and
Beloved Brother in Islam, before we proceed to answer your specific question on
‘nikaah’, we would like to clarify our position which you assumed for us
regarding the following of the madhabs or the respected imams.
Beloved
Brother in Islam, we have never (Allah forbid) claimed or believe that the
following of the madhabs or the respected Imams in Islam is a ‘bida’
(innovation) or a form of misguidance! The
respected and honored Imams of the madhabs were undoubtedly some of the best
scholars in the History of Islam from amongst the latter generations of the
muslim Ummah; and our humble view and opinion is that instead of choosing and
limiting one’s knowledge to just one madhab or one Imam, it would be better to
study and understand and utilize the knowledge of all the madhabs and all the
respected Imams; for the mission of each and every good madhab and the good
imams in Islam cannot be any other than to follow the Imam of all the imams,
the last and final Messenger of Allah, Mohammed ar-Rasool Allah (saws)!
Thus our
duty and responsibility as muslims is only to unconditionally follow and obey
the madhab of the Imam of all the imams, Prophet Mohamed (saws); and his madhab
was none other than Islam! Prophet
Mohamed (saws) never ever claimed to be a Shafei, or a Maliki, or a Hanafi, or
a Hanbali, etc.; but he (saws) always claimed to be a ‘muslim’.
We as
muslims must respect and honor each and every good and righteous imam and their
noble works and pray that Allah Subhanah accept their striving for the Deen and
grant them the best grades in Al-Firdaus; but our unconditional obedience
belongs to none except Allah and His Messenger (saws).
Your Question: BUt hte Brother who is asking this question says
that marrying in mosque is Prophetic (pbuh) sunna ..May be I dont know if this
is sunna to marry in mosque or someone has wisely introduced this practice in
islaam in the name of sunna.
Please can you give any authentic hadith declaring this as a sunna
or reference in quran
Dear and
Beloved Brother in Islam, it is indeed unfortunate that today we have
differentiated and segregated the clergy from the normal muslims; so much so
that for every religious act or ritual we have to seek the advice of a ‘clergy’
or ‘holy man’; be it marriage, or offering our prayers, or performing our
burials, etc.
At the
time of the Prophet (saws) and even many years after his (saws) death, there
was absolutely no segregation between the ‘clergy’ and the normal muslims. It was not like everytime someone wanted to
get married, he had to seek the assistance of the clergy to solemnize his
marriage! If the groom, the bride, the
bride’s guardian and two witnesses were able to witness the ‘nikaah’ contract,
any believer would perform this simple Islamic marriage rite wherever they were
stationed at the time; be they in their homes, or during travel, or anywhere
they happened to be!
Even when
some of the closest companions of the Prophet (saws) got married, it was not
like they went to the Prophet (saws) to perform their ‘nikaah’! He (saws) would only find out one is married if
they informed him personally after their marriage, or when the ‘walima’ feast
was given.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 5.274 Narrated
by Anas
When 'Abdur-Rahman bin Auf came to
If one
simply studies the above authentic hadith, one would realize that a companion
of even the status of Hadrat Abdur-Rahmaan bin Auf (r.a.), who was amongst the
early immigrants from Makkah to Medina, and was one amongst the ‘Aashara
Mubasshereen’ (the ten companions who were given the good news of Paradise in
their lives) did not get his marriage performed at the hands of the Prophet of
Allah (saws)!
Provided
all the conditions of ‘nikaah’ in Shariah were met, a marriage witnessed or
solemnized by the Imam of the Sacred Mosque in Makkah would be exactly as
acceptable and legal in the sight of Allah Subhanah as a marriage witnessed by
normal believers like you and me in our homes!
Thus my dear and beloved brother in Islam, there is absolutely no
restriction or encouragement or a bigger or smaller reward for one to marry in
a particular place like a mosque, or a house, or even in the streets! One may perform his marriage wherever it is
convenient and easy for him; as there is absolutely no importance attached in
Islam to the place where one gets married!
If one
wishes or it is convenient for one to get married in a mosque there is no harm,
and if one wishes or is convenient for him to get married in one’s home there
is no harm.
Praise be
to Allah Subhanah Who has made the deen of Islam easy for the believers.
Whatever
written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance,
and whatever of error is of me. Allah
Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan