Married woman have boyfriend
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's
Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
A married woman age 32 with 3 children(girls) seek divorce from
her husband. And she have a
Furthermore she only thinking about her
Please advise
Your Islam brother
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Answer:
Married
woman have boyfriend
In the
name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness.
Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray,
none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no
person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai, nobody!) worthy of
worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His
slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
If the
sister can bring herself to forgive her husband for his wrong-doings towards
her and save her marriage and her family; that would obviously be the best and
most righteous option for her in the sight of Allah Subhanah.
But if
the sister cannot bring herself to forgive her husband and is determined in
seeking divorce; then she is well within her rights to seek a divorce and start
a new life with whomever she pleases.
But as
long as she is married to her husband, she is bound by her duty to provide him
with all his rights in full. If she does
not give her due rights to her husband, she will indeed be guilty in the Court
of Allah Subhanah on an Inevitable Day.
Also it is considered an absolute and an abomination of a sin in Islam
for a married woman to be in love with a non-mehram man other than her
husband!
Our
humble advice to our sister is to fear the Accounting of the impending and
inevitable Day of Judgement in the Presence of the All-Mighty Lord, and immediately
seek sincere repentance and forgiveness from Him for her deeds before she
reaches her appointment of death; for then the doors of repentance will be
closed!
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54: (O
Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair
of Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before
the scourge overtakes you; for then you
may get no help from anywhere.”
Whatever
written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance,
and whatever of error is of me. Allah
Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan
Wister