Sister feels alienated at inlaws
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One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
asalamu alaikum.last year i left the uk to come and be with my husband as visa issues prevented my husband from coming to the uk.i have 3 children and am currently pregnant.we live with my husbands family.His sister and mother are not kind to me.oppression has kicked in i just stay in my bedroom.? dont speak the language and neither do my children they are suffer?ng at school for th?s and my m?ddle ch?ld ?s aut?st?c and doesnt rec?eve the help he d?d ?n the uk.My husbands out of the house most of the time.he doesnt fullf?ll h?s dut?es he has taken money off me and he doesnt g?ve me any.? d?d leave and go back to the uk but ? came back for my husband and he told me he would get us our own home wh?ch after ? came back realized he has no ?ntent?on of do?ng so.when ? tell my husband how h?s fam?ly make me feel and what they do he gets angry and cares more for them.? dont have any fr?ends or fam?ly here as they l?ve ?n the uk.
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