Call child by mothers name.
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As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
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this question:
Is it
permissible to have the middle name of the newborn to be the wife`s last name
and the last name to be father`s last name
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Answer:
Call child by
mother’s name
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 33 Surah Ahzaab verses 4-5:
…Allah has not made
your adopted sons your real sons. These
are the things which you utter from your mouths, but Allah says what is based on reality; and He Alone guides to the
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.711 Narrated by Abu Dhar
The Prophet (saws) said, "If somebody
claims to be the son of any other than his real father knowingly, he but
disbelieves in Allah; and if somebody claims to belong to some folk to whom he
does not belong, let such a person take his place in the (Hell) Fire."
One amongst the general culture which was prevalent
amongst the Arabs before the advent of the Last and Final Messenger (saws), and
one which the Prophet (saws) himself adopted and endorsed, was that an
off-spring (regardless of whether male or female) would be recognized by the
name of its father.
If a child is born out of wedlock or ‘zina’, there is
indeed allowance in Shariah that the child will be called and recognized by the
name of its mother and not its unlawful biological father.
Your
Question: Is it permissible to have the middle name of the newborn to be the
wife`s last name and the last name to be father`s last name
Lets say Allah Subhanah blessed a believing couple with a
child, and lets say the husband’s name is Salmaan bin (son of) Siddique, the
wife’s name is Maryam binte (daughter of) Ahmed, and the couple chose Ammar as
the first name of their child.
Under normal circumstances, the child would be called and
recognized as Ammar bin (son of) Salmaan…..but if for whatever reason one
wishes to include one’s wife’s last name in the name of their child and call
their child Ammar Ahmed bin (son of) Salmaan….there is absolutely no harm and
restriction in Shariah in doing so.
As long as the child ‘Ammar’ is known and recognized as
the son of his father Salmaan, there is no specific restriction or prohibition
in Shariah if one wishes to include whatever name/s one pleases as the second
or third name of their child.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan