Why is it haram to have anal sex?
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Initially, i want to mention something. I`m going to get married pretty soon. I have some doubts, that i want to clear, in my mind. My first question is, why is it haram to have anal sex? My second question is, are we allowed to drink wife`s milk? Please answer this question briefly in the light of Quran and Hadees.
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Q-1: My first question is, why is it haram to have anal sex?
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3192 Narrated by Khuzaymah ibn Thabit
The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not ashamed of the Truth! Do not have intercourse with women through the anus."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3195 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: He who has intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: If anyone resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says or has intercourse with his wife when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus: he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad (saws)!
Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specified as absolutely unlawful for a believer who sincerely fears Allah and the Last Day to enjoy conjugal relations with his wife during her menses and through her anus.
The abominable and repulsive act of anal sex is unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean and impure; and this act is not found even in any of the lower animate creations!
Q-2: My second question is, are we allowed to drink wife`s milk?
There is absolutely no harm or restriction in Islam if the husband wishes to touch, kiss, fondle, play, or even suck the breasts of his wife. If the husband happens to taste the milk from his wifes breast accidentally or voluntary, there is absolutely no harm and does not effect their relationship in the least.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.815 Narrated by Aisha
Once the Prophet (saws) came to me while a man was in my house. He (saws) said, "O 'Aisha! Who is this (man)?" I replied, "My foster brother." He (saws) said, "O 'Aisha! Be sure about your foster brothers, as fostership is only valid if it takes place in the suckling period (before two years of age)."
In light of the above clear guidance of the Messenger of Allah (saws), the consumption of a womens milk will only bring into effect foster-relationships if the suckling baby is in the suckling period, which is unanimously accepted in Islam as being under two years of age. Thus the majority of the good scholars in Islam are of the opinion that if a husband accidentally or voluntary happens to taste the milk from his wifes breast, it does not effect their relationship in the least.
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