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Henna Rasm Ritual

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How far is the rasm of mehndi allowed in Islam?

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Mehndi rasm ritual

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Marriage in Islam is considered a happy and joyous occasion, and it is absolutely recommended and encouraged in Islam that the believers enjoy and celebrate this happy occasion through offering a feast, legal singing, the playing of legal music, application of adornment or beauty for the ladies, etc.


Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3154 Narrated by Aisha

I had a girl of the Ansar whom I gave in marriage, and Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Why do you not sing, Aisha, for this clan of the Ansar like singing?"

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3159 Narrated by Abu Mas'ud al-Ansari

Amir ibn Sa'd said: "Going in and finding Qarazah ibn Ka'b and Abu Mas'ud al-Ansari at a wedding where girls were singing" I said, "Is this being done in the presence of you two who are companions of Allah's Messenger (saws) and were present at Badr?" They replied, "Sit down if you wish and listen along with us, or go away if you wish, for we have been given license (or permission) for amusement at a wedding."

In formulating any legal celebration, one must be absolutely careful never to compromise these principles of Islam:

There can be absolutely no connotation of shirk

There must be no indecency or elements of fahisha in the celebrations

There must be mixing of the sexes

One must not go over the top in ones spending

One cannot copy or imitate a celebration that is particular to the pagans

The application of henna or mehndi at the time of marriage is basically a cultural occasion and if any of the above principles of Islam are not violated, there is absolutely no harm if the believing women wish to celebrate marriage with the application of mehndi or henna.

But to make the application of mehndi into a particular and obligatory ritual and rasm of marriage, or to burden the bride or her family to foot the bill of a massive occasion where huge ball-rooms are booked, bands are employed to play popular and illegal string music, dancing or singing in the presence of non-mehram males is done, or where expensive jewelry and clothes are worn to outdo one another, etc., are absolutely against the guidance and teachings of moderation in Islam.

There is no harm in the legality or essence of the application of mehndi at a time of marriage; but how this application and celebration is done is what determines its legality in Islam.

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Your Brother in Islam,

Burhan


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