Woman irregular menses: ..
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Dear mam /sir
I m 30 yrs old n my parents are too much concern of my marriage so they r busy in finding a groom for me so i humbly want to ask u a private question about myself as i have periods problem, menses happened to me by using medicine only it dosent comes naturally so i m little afraid of doing marriage. Will i tell to be my woulld be husband about that or not, willl it effect my relationship or not.
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Sister we suggest you take advice from a specialist doctor regarding this problem. There is no need to disclose this matter to your husband to be. There has to be a medical treatment for this illness. You cannot keep on taking medicine to get your regular periods. What if you are really pregnant and then you take this medicine. That could create a lot of complications in your health.
We suggest you get medical help and clear this matter before marriage, otherwise you will face problems with your husband and in-laws.
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