When married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing or not knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on you "Nikaah" or not?? if you could plz elaborate on it and send me an email with the link of the answer. Thanks!
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brother! i have been hearing and reading many of the questions on this website,
and wanted to know if, when married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing
or not knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on
you "Nikaah" or not?? if you could plz elaborate on it and send me an
email with the link of the answer. Thanks!
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Answer:
Anal sex & nikaah
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person,
no grave, no prophet, no
imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah
Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the
seal of His Messengers.
The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not
ashamed of the Truth! Do not
have intercourse with women through the anus."
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah
will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the
anus."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘He who
has intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.’
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘If anyone
resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says or has intercourse with his
wife when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through
her anus: he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to
Your
Question: when married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing or not
knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on you
"Nikaah" or not??
Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specifically forbidden
the believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day to have anal sex with
their wives.
If one has performed the heinous crime of entering his
wife through her anus, he should turn back to Allah Subhanah seeking sincere
repentance for his transgression and make a solemn pledge with Allah Subhanah
that he would never ever commit the sin again. If one is sincere in seeking repentance
from their Lord, it is expected that they will find their Lord Forgiving and
Merciful.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:
(O Prophet) say:
“O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of
Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All
Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to
Him before the scourge overtakes you;
for then you may get no help from anywhere.”
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136:
Allah likes such good
people very much, who, if ever they
commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for
their shortcomings. For who, but Allah, can forgive sins? (And Allah loves those) who do not
knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with
forgiveness from Allah, and with
Gardens beneath which canals flow,
and they will reside therein forever! How excellent is the reward of
those who do good deeds!
The act of anal sex, as big a sin and crime it is in the
Sight of Allah Subhanah, does not by itself negate or invalidate one’s
nikaah with one’s spouse.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and
He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in
Islam,
Burhan
Wister