Mehr as gold or cash.
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I have asked this question before also in Oct/2009 and I am wondering if I
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missed before. Please reply, I need to know the answer as soon as possible.
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I married with ransom money (Mehr) of 21 tola gold. And I paid half of mehr (11
tola) to my wife in the form of cheque (as indian currency) but she returned
that cheque to me by saying that I dont need it. But I told her this is her
right and her money, but still she returned to me. Then I said her "I
fullfilled my duty for the mehr and I am keeping this money as your Amanat and
you can take it back anytime". And she agreed upon that.
Now after few years she is asking for her mehr but as per the current market
value of Gold. Do I need to give her with the current market value or just
return her money only whick I kept with me when she returned to me.
And what about the rest half part which I never gave to her. Do I need to apply
current market value of gold OR market value at the time of Nikah.
I know she will do Khula (ask for Divorce) after taking mehr, may be after 6-7
months but I would like her to return my Mehr. So what will be the case of
market value of Gold if she will return money to me.
Jazak-Allah Khairan
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Answer:
Mehr as gold or cash
In the name of Allah,
We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah
guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide
them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone,
and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of
His Messengers.
Your Question: Now after few years she is asking for her
mehr but as per the current market value of Gold. Do I need to give her with
the current market value or just return her money only whick I kept with me
when she returned to me.
If you had offered your wife
half the ‘mehr’ in the equivalent amount in cash/cheque at the time of your
marriage and she subsequently told you to hold the amount as an ‘amaanah’ or trust….you
are only liable to pay her the amount which was held in your trust.
But if out of generosity you
were to pay her the current market value of the gold, it would be considered as
piety and righteousness on your part in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.
Your Question: …And what about the rest half part which I
never gave to her. Do I need to apply current market value of gold OR market
value at the time of Nikah.
Because your assigned ‘mehr’ was
in a measure of gold, for the balance half you will be liable to pay your wife
either in gold or equivalent amount of the current market value of the
gold.
Your Question: …I know she will do Khula (ask for Divorce)
after taking mehr, may be after 6-7 months but I would like her to return my
Mehr. So what will be the case of market value of Gold if she will return money
to me.
If your wife does seek a ‘khula’
divorce from you and you wish to demand your ‘mehr’ is returned, and because
your ‘mehr’ was determined in a measure of gold, your wife will be liable to
pay you either in gold or an equivalent amount at the current market value of
gold.
Whatever written of
Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever
of error is of me alone. Allah Alone
Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan