Learn own religion first before Islam
Mu' meneen Brothers
and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa
Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be
upon all of you)
One of our
brothers/sisters has asked this question:
Asalamu Aleikum
I was wondering I have a friend who seems to be interested in Islam and
possibly reverting to Islam aswell but theres a catch to this story...he
likes a muslim girl and he knows that she doesnt believe in courting and
the only way Islam and she will allow him into her life is if he were Muslima
and prepared to marry her..My thought is that i dont believe that he should
become muslim for the sake of her being muslim..He does however claim that he
doesnt want to revert BECAUSE of HER and the thing is he feels more
attracted to Islam as he doesnt know much about his own religion being Hinduism
and being in her company and his other muslim friends it seems as though his
been more attracted to what Islam has to offer as he says that it can answer
many of the questions he has and His own religion cant....My concern is that
personally i believe that in this situation He should 1st discover His own
religion...become comfortable there with then find out more about Islam and
Make an informed decision about which Deen he wants to follow...I dont want him
to become muslim and then have this wonderment at the back of His mind and
emptiness inside and regrett not having educated himself more about Hinduism...
So is it right that i as a Muslim encourage him to find out more about Hinduism
and then later to focus on Islam...
Id love for him to become muslim as i believe its the True Deen...i just want
him to discover that for himself
Plz when u reply to this mail add on my message too
Salaam
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Answer:
Learn own religion first before
Islam
In the name of Allah, We praise
Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none
can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright.
We bear witness that there is no one (no idol,
no person, no grave, no
prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your Statement: He does however
claim that he doesnt want to revert BECAUSE of HER and the thing is he
feels more attracted to Islam as he doesnt know much about his own religion
being Hinduism and being in her company and his other muslim friends it seems
as though his been more attracted to what Islam has to offer as he says that it
can answer many of the questions he has and His own religion cant....
When the person himself claims
that he is attracted to the Truth of Al-Islam,
and that Islam offers him the answers of many of the questions his own
religion cannot; we, as believers, must accept his claims at face value; for Allah Subhanah has not given man the power to judge what
exactly is the intention of the other persons’ heart!
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 3.706 Narrated by Umar bin
Al Khattab
The Prophet (saws)
said, "The (reward of) deeds depend on intentions, and every person will
get the reward according to what he intends.
So, whoever migrated for Allah and His Messenger, then his migration will be for Allah and His
Messenger; and whoever migrated for
worldly benefits or for marrying a woman, then his migration will be for what
he migrated for."
Your Question: My concern is that personally i believe that in this situation He should 1st discover His own religion...become comfortable there with then find out more about Islam and Make an informed decision about which Deen he wants to follow... So is it right that i as a Muslim encourage him to find out more about Hinduism and then later to focus on Islam...
Any person who has lived a
period of his life on a particular path, knows the basics of that way of
life, its rituals, its short-comings, its dogma, and its
beliefs! It does not matter what
religion one belongs to; if he sincerely and without any prejudice, compares
his religion to the Way of Life approved by Allah Subhanah, he will find the perfect answers to all the
questions his heart ever asked about creation,
life, and the after-life!
There is one and only one Way of
Life approved by the One Who Created everything in existence, and that is
Al-Islam. All the others are paths or ways man has invented for himself!
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 5 Surah Al Maidah verse 3:Today I (Allah) have perfected your
deen for you and completed my Blessing on you and approved Islam as your way of
life.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale-Imran verse
19:Indeed, Islam is the ONLY right way
of life in the sight of Allah.
It is only when one compares the
‘fake’ with the original, does he realize the Truth and the falsehoods! There is always One Original, and there might be many fakes; one may compare a fake to a fake, and the most he can say is that one fake is
better than the other. It is only when
the fake is compared with the Original, that the Truth will stand clear from
all the falsehoods.
It is not necessary for a
believer to guide the person to understand his own religion, before he invites
a non-muslim to Al-Islam; for that is a thing the person will do
naturally! The more he learns about
Islam, the more he will realize the Truth; and the more he will realize and
recognize the Truth, the more he will distance himself from the falsehoods of
the religion he grew up in! It is
only natural that even after he has, if Allah Wills, reverted to Al-Islam, he will keep on comparing his old religion
to the Truth of Al-Islam; and everytime
he compares he will have no choice but to confirm that the Truth is absolutely
and perfectly in alignment with Al-Islam.
On a personal note brother, I myself, by the Grace and Mercy of Allah
Subhanah, am a revert to Islam. And
Allah is my witness, I know more about the religion of my forefathers (which I
left to become a muslim) today, than I
knew when I reverted after understanding and accepting the Truth of the Quran
and Sunnah! Its been a good 20 years
since Allah blessed me to revert to the Truth of Al-Islam, but to this day I
always compare everything to the religion I left behind; and every single time, and I repeat, every single time the Truth of Islam stands clear from the
falsehoods of the religion of my forefathers!
All Praise is due to Allah Subhanah Alone, Who has guided the believers
to the Truth of Al-Islam.
Thus brother, your fear that the person might waver after
he has accepted Islam as his way of life,
is non-consequential. The more
the person compares, the more the Truth of Al-Islam will convince him that he
is on the Right Path.
Thus the best thing to do would be
to invite him to the Religion of Truth of Al-Islam, and give him a copy of the
Divine Message which Allah Subhanah has revealed for the guidance of all
mankind. This one 600-odd-pages Book, when
truly understood, has compelled the hearts of billions of people to submit
their will to the Will of their Creator; and if the person is truly seeking the
Truth, his journey for the search of
Truth will, if Allah so Pleases, end right here, Insha Allah.
Allah says in the Holy Quran: Chapter 16, Surah An-Nahl Ayat 125:Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and excellent admonition and argue with people in the best manner. Your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His Way and who is Rightly guided.
Allah says in Chapter 2, Surah Baqarah aayat 185:"Ramadan is the month in which the Quran was sent down: this Book is a Perfect guidance for mankind, and consists of CLEAR teachings which show the Right Way and are a Criterion of the Truth and falsehood."
May Allah Subhanah reward you
with the best of this world and the Hereafter for inviting a person who does
not believe, to the Truth of
Al-Islam.
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 4.192 Narrated by Sahl bin
Sad
The Prophet (saws)
said to Hadrat Ali ibn Abi Taalib (r.a.): “By Allah! If a single person embraces Islam at your hands (i.e. through
you), that will be better for you than a great number of red camels (the most
precious possession in those times)."
Whatever written of Truth and
benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error
is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He
is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in
Islam,
Burhan