Men and women prayer different
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and Sisters,
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Dear brother
Burhan
Asalam oalaikum
jazakAllah for
your wonderful work! I really benefited from your various mails which are
posted in this forum. I had a couple of questions in my mind & I couldn’t
get any valid answers to them. I hope u can guide me with the help of the Quran
& the Sunnah
1)Is there any
difference b/w a woman’s way of prayer & a man’s way ; because some people
say that a woman should pray in such a fashion that all curled up. In Indo-Pak
this way is adopted but after staying in Jeddah & visiting the holy mosques
& Mecca & Medina I have seen women praying (prostrating) in the same
manner as men. Please elaborate & I have also read a Hadith in which the
Prophet Mohammad. (p.b.u.h) forbade the Muslims not to prostrate in such a
manner which resembles the posture of a dog.
Wassalam .
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Answer:
Men and women prayer
different
In the name of Allah, We praise
Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none
can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright.
We bear witness that there is no one (no idol,
no person, no grave, no
prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
There is absolutely no difference
in the form or way of the prayer between a man and a woman.
But when praying in a public
place, some companions of the Messenger
of Allah (saws) would guide their women to pray in a curled-up manner, so that their ‘satr’ would be better honored
and protected. The Hanafi School of
Thought is more inclined towards this type of prayer for the believing woman.
To protect and honor the satr of the believing woman, the Messenger of Allah (saws) also guided them to pray behind the men when in congregation, so that when the women bend in ‘rukuu’ and ‘sujood’, they are not visible to the men and their ‘satr’ is better protected.
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 1.785 Narrated by Anas bin
Malik
The Prophet (saws)
said, "Be straight in the prostrations,
and none of you should put his forearms on the ground (in the
prostration) like a dog."
The hadith whereby the Prophet
(saws) forbade the believers to prostrate in a manner that resembles a dog is a
different issue. What the Prophet
(saws) forbade was that when doing prostration, one must touch the ground only with his forehead and palms, and not stretch out his full fore-arms on
the ground. This does not apply to
the woman when she prostrates in a curled-up fashion, because she can still pray curled-up and touch only her palms and
forehead on the ground in prostration.
Whatever written of Truth and
benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error
is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He
is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in
Islam,
Burhan