Alhumdulillahi am engaged but as u said in answer that engagement has no legal basis in Islam..
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Assalamualaikum wrwb brother
I really appreciate the work u do .I really got to knew so many things through this website well my question is that Alhumdulillahi am engaged but as u said in answer that engagement has no legal basis in Islam..any ways .Both of our parents asre aware that we talk to each other
well we no longer want to wait now as we
both want to get our lives started with each other the problem we are facing
right now is that his parents want to wait for another two years as my parents
want me to get married as soon as possible
he tried to talk to his parents but they want me to finish my degree
studies please help me give us a solution as 2 years is a vry long time
give us a solution so that we can get
married as soon as possible
jazakallah
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Answer:
Nikaah now marry later
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Your Question: please help me give us a solution as 2 years is a vry long time give us a solution so that we can get married as soon as possible
Dear and beloved sister in Islam, the only lawful solution
which would allow you and your fianc to meet and talk to your hearts content
is to convince your parents to perform your Nikaah as soon as possible, and
solemnize the marriage at a later date even if it be after two years.
This way the wish of both parties: you and your fianc,
and that of your parents will be honored.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Wister