My Question is, If husband and wife sit togeather and talk and be near each other. And due to exitement or non exitment, the liquid of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard on them or what?
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due to exitement or non exitment, the liquid
of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard
on them or what?
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Answer:
Ghusl after sexual release
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Fiqh-us-Sunnah
Fiqh 1.10
Wadi is
a thick white secretion discharged (by some people) after urination. It is
considered impure. Aishah said, "
Wadi comes out after urination. The person should wash the private parts and
perform ablution. It is not necessary to
perform ghusl.” This is related by Ibn al-Mundhir. Ibn 'Abbas related that "mani”
(ejaculation or full sexual discharge) requires ghusl. As for “madhi” (prostatic fluid or initial
sexual discharge) and ‘wadi’ they require a complete purification." This is related by al-Athram. Al-Baihaqi has it with the wording,
"Concerning ‘madhi’ and ‘wadi’, he said, 'Wash your sexual organs and
perform the same type of ablution as you perform for prayer."'
Other than urine, there
are basically three types of discharges that are released from one’s private
organs:
- Wadi (a thick white secretion immediately
after uniration by some people)
- Madhi (a sort of slow release of lubricant
just prior to a full sexual discharge)
- Mani (a full sexual discharge)
If only Wadi or Madhi is released, one does not require a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify himself; he must wash his private parts and the part of his clothes or body where the ‘wadi’ or ‘madhi’ has touched, do the wudu, and he would be available for prayer.
If Mani is released, then
it become obligatory to perform a ‘ghusl’ or full bath to purify oneself.
Your Question: If husband and wife
sit togeather and talk and be near each other. And due to exitement or non
exitment, the liquid of husband or of wife flows. Is Gusul Fard on them or
what?
From what you have related, it seems the discharge
is only the ‘madhi’ or initial sexual lubricant and not the ‘mani’ or full
sexual discharge. When one experiences
‘madhi’, a ghusl or full bath is not obligatory and one may wash one’s private
parts, do the ablution and make oneself available for prayer.
But when one experiences ‘mani’ or full sexual
discharge, a ghusl or full bath of purification is absolutely obligatory before
one can make oneself available for prayer.
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and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of
error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best
and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well
wisher in Islam,
Burhan
Wister