My second name is Rahman. Some of my Arab friends have said that since it one of the names of Allah
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Dear
Burhan Bhai Assalam-o-alaikum,
My second
name is Rahman. Some of my Arab friends have said that since it one of the
names of Allah, I should have a pre-fix like Abdur. Should I actually go ahead
and change it? This will require legal formalities and changes at a lot of
places (office, bank, immigration, etc.). Will it be considered a sin in the
eyes of Allah?
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Answer:
Name person Rahman
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah
Israa verse 110:
110 Say: "Call upon Allah or call upon The ‘Rahmaan’:
by whatever Name ye call upon Him (it is well): for to Him belong the Most
Beautiful Names!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 55 Surah
Rahmaan verses 1-4:
1 The Ar-Rahmaan ((Allah, Most
Gracious)!
2 It is He, Who has taught the Qur'an.
3 He has created man:
4 He has taught him speech (and
Intelligence)
The name ‘Rahmaan’ is definitely one amongst the Absolute
and Exlusive Names and Attributes of our Lord Creator, and none in creation has
a right to be called or recognized by this name except Him!
Without an iota of a doubt, ‘Rahmaan’ is absolutely
inappropriate and unlawful name to be given to anyone in creation, leave alone
one who has professed belief in Allah and His Messenger (saws)!
Your Statement: Some
of my Arab friends have said that since it one of the names of Allah, I should
have a pre-fix like Abdur.
Your brethren who speak or understand the Arabic language
are indeed right, as ‘Rahmaan’ is indeed one amongst the Absolutely Exclusive
Names and Attributes of our Lord Creator.
Indeed one in creation can only and truly be a slave to the Lord, and it
would definitely be appropriate and a factful declaration to add a prefix of
‘Abdul-….’ to any of the Names of Allah Subhanah.
The Messenger of Allah (saws) said that amongst the best
names for a believer to have or keep are ‘Abd-Allah’ and ‘Abdur-Rahmaan’.
Your Question:
Should I actually go ahead and change it?
This will require legal formalities and changes at a lot of places
(office, bank, immigration, etc.). Will
it be considered a sin in the eyes of Allah?
First and foremost, you should never ever call yourself,
or be recognized, or introduced as ‘Rahmaan’, but rather you should strive to
call yourself and be recognized as ‘Abdur-Rahmaan’.
Because you were not responsible for appointing this name
yourself, there will be no sin upon you….but if you insist on calling yourself
by a name which is an Absolutely Exclusive Name and Attribute of Allah
Subhanah, then indeed it would be considered a sin.
Beloved brother, if it is possible and do able, it would
indeed be best and purest if you took the steps to legally change your name
from ‘Rahmaan’ to ‘Abdur-Rahmaan’. And
if it is not possible, then the least you could do is make absolutely sure that
from this day forward, you call yourself and are recognized as ‘Abdur-Rahmaan’
rather than ‘Rahmaan’.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in
Islam,
Burhan