Adopted child name
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa
Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
this question:
As Salaam Alaekum,
We have been married for last ten years but we
have not yet got children. Though there are no fertility problems, we have done
a lot of treatment (me and my wife are both medically fit to have children) but
only Almighty Allah knows best why we are not having children.
Now we are planning to adopt the child of my
brother-in-law(my wife`s brother) who is in India and I am working in Gulf.
My question is: We will add child`s own
father`s name (Imran) with his name (Saif) in the Applicant`s column of the
passport (The child`s full name will be `Saif Imran`). Due to legal reasons, I
have to give my name (as father) instead of his own father`s name in Father`s
Name Column of passport. Is it permissible according to islamic teachings?
For Example : Child`s Name = Saif Imran
Father`s Name = Owaise
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Answer:
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In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your Statement: Though there are no fertility problems, we
have done a lot of treatment (me and my wife are both medically fit to have
children) but only Almighty Allah knows best why we are not having children.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chaper 42 Surah
Shuraa verses 49-50:
49 To Allah belongs the dominion of the
heavens and the earth. He creates what
He Wills. He bestows (children) male or female according to His Will (and
Plan).
50 Or He bestows both males and females and
He leaves barren whom He Wills: for He is Full of Knowledge and Power.
Dear and Beloved Brother in Islam, Allah Subhanah gives
children to whomever He Wills and leaves barren whomever He Wills, thus
involving each in a trial of gratefulness or patience. Rest assured that your Lord is well aware of
the conditions and aspirations of each in His creation; thus keep your belief
and trust in Him Alone and constantly implore Him in absolute humility and hope
to remove your trial from you, and bestow upon you the blessing and mercy of
children.
Allah Subhanah put the noble Prophet Zachariyaa (a..s.) to
a similar test, and this is the
supplication the noble Prophet (saws) made which was answered by Allah
Subhanah, Who blessed him with a noble
son, Prophet Yahyaa (a.s.).
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 21 Surah
Anbiyaa verses 89-90:
89 And
(remember) Zakariya when he cried to his Lord: "O my Lord! Leave me
not without offspring, though Thou art
the Best of Inheritors.”
90 So We
listened to him: and We granted him Yahya:
We cured his wife's (barrenness) for him. These three were ever quick in emulation in
good works: they used to call on Us with
love, and reverence, and humble themselves before Us.
Beloved brother, recite the above supplication as often as
is easy for you; it is expected that your Lord will ease your trial for you and
your family, and provide you with righteous off-spring, Insha Allah.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verse 186: And if My servants
ask you, O Prophet, concerning Me, tell them that I am quite near to them. I hear and answer the prayer of the
suppliant, when he calls on Me. So let them respond to My call and believe in
Me. (Convey this to them), perhaps they may be guided aright.
My question is: We will add child`s own father`s name
(Imran) with his name (Saif) in the Applicant`s column of the passport (The
child`s full name will be `Saif Imran`). Due to legal reasons, I have to give
my name (as father) instead of his own father`s name in Father`s Name Column of
passport. Is it permissible according to islamic teachings?
For Example : Child`s Name = Saif Imran
Father`s Name = Owaise
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 33 Surah
Ahzaab verses 4-6:
4 Allah has not made for any man two hearts
in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your
mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by
your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the
Truth and He shows the (right) Way.
5 Call them by (the names) of their
fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah but if ye know not their father's (names call them) your Brothers
in faith or your Maulas. But there is no
blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your
hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning Most Merciful.
6 The Prophet is closer to the Believers
than their own selves and his wives are their mothers. Blood-relations among each other have
closer personal ties in the Decree of Allah than (the Brotherhood of)
Believers and Muhajirs: nevertheless do ye what is just to your closest
friends: such is the writing in the Decree (of Allah).
Beloved Brother in Islam, blood relations have various
implications in the sight of Islamic Law, especially because these relationships
demand certain rights in the future pertaining to marriage, inheritance,
etc. Thus Islamic Law has declared and
commanded the believers to honor the absolute sanctity of blood
relationships.
There is absolutely no harm if you wish to adopt your
brother-in-law’s child, but it would not be permissible in the sight of Shariah
to include or allude the name of the adopted father as the child’s real father
in any way or format.
Besides, if you list your name as the child’s father in
the passport, even only to fulfill the legal requirement, it would be a lie;
and this deen of Truth called Islam never ever endorses or encourages the
concept of falsehood.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.712 Narrated by Wathila bin Al Asqa
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Verily,
one of the worst lies is to claim falsely to be the son of someone other than
one's real father, or to claim to have had a dream one has not had, or to
attribute to me what I have not said."
The best and purest way in the sight of Shariah and Allah
Subhanah would be to always state the Truth and inform the authorities that you
wish to adopt the child, and thus fulfill the subsequent legal requirements of
adoption as stated by law.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan