Looking staring at Girls
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's
Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of
our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
heloo dear sir
i want 2 a question that is it a right lokk at other girls and if u r in a love with any girl and
cant express what should one do lastly is is the
concept of black magic is correcy iin
islam and one is
struck by this ehat should he do? plz plz
answer my these questions for God sake plz answer these
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Answer:
Looking staring at
Girls
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none
can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright.
We bear witness that there is no one (no idol,
no person, no grave, no
prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone,
and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of
His Messengers.
Q-1: is it a right lokk at other girls?
There
is no harm and no sin if one’s sight accidentally falls upon a non-mehram woman; but if one were to take a second look
or stare at the non-mehram woman with lust, then it will be considered a sin.
Allah has
commanded the believers,
who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day, to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 24 Surah Noor verse 30:
Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard
their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well
acquainted with all that they do.
Q-2: if u r
in a love with any girl and cant express what should one do
If one
likes a girl, and
has an intention to marry the girl; the
right and pure thing to do would be to approach the girl’s guardian (her
father, or her brother, or her uncle, etc.), and make your honorable intention known to
them.
It
does not behove a believer, who sincerely fears Allah and the Last
Day, to approach a non-mehram girl directly and express his feelings to her in
private. This is a road that leads to
forming an illicit and illegal relationship, and must be avoided by the believers.
Q-3: Black Magic.
We
have answered a similar question on the forum and are attaching the answer for
your reference.
Whatever
written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance,
and whatever of error is of me. Allah
Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Wister