Education and working of Women
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Assalamu alaikum,
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your colleages for the great service of spreading the
teachings of Islam to the community. May Allah accept your work.
I totally agree with what you have mentioned in your reply to Re: Question No.
295-1862: Education and working women, however, if you can also throw some
light on the cautions and limits to be observed by muslim
women while working, specially when they may at places be required to work
along with men.
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Answer:
Education and working of Women
In the
name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness.
Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray,
none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no
person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
May Allah
Subhanah reward you with the best of this world and
the Hereafter for your kind comments of encouragement for our humble efforts in
the propagation of the Truth. We humbly hope, beg,
and pray the Merciful Lord
accepts our humble and weak efforts,
forgives us our shortcomings, and
saves you, us, and all the believers
from the torment of the Hell Fire. Ameen.
Your Question: however, if you can
also throw some light on the cautions and limits to be observed by muslim women while working,
specially when they may at places be required to work along with men.
In the approved ‘way of life’ called Al-Islam, Allah Subhanah
has laid all the financial responsibilities absolutely and unconditionally on
the man; as a father, as a husband, as a son, etc. It is the man’s responsibility in Islam to
provide for those under his guardianship.
In the
same approved ‘way of life’ called Al-Islam, Allah Subhanah
has laid equally, if not more important responsibilities on the woman according
to her nature, which complement and complete the sacred institution of
life; as a mother, as a wife, and as a
daughter, etc.
The All
Knowing, All Wise Lord has laid down the responsibilities of each gender
according to the nature in which He Created them. If one tries to take over the
responsibilities of the other, chances are one may compromise his own duties and responsibilities that are laid upon him.
Only when each person recognizes his own nature in which he was created, and
acts according to its nature fulfilling his due responsibilities and duties to
the best of his ability; will there come a righteous
and complete society in existence.
We see in
today’s modern-educated-but ungodly world, how the nature and mentality of
mankind is challenged when the ignorant people try to make the man and the
woman ‘compete’ on the same turf, rather
than complement and complete each other to create harmony and peace in society.
In the
ungodly world today, where the accumulation of wealth, or position, or status,
or fame have become the criteria of success;
the ignorant and ungodly people have paid little attention or belittled
the other very very important aspect of life called
‘family’ and ‘relations’ and ‘harmony’.
These ignorant and ungodly people have tried to glamorize the role and
responsibility of one gender, and on the other hand tried to demean and degrade
the all important role of the other; thus resulting in an utter chaos and
unfair competition within the sexes,
rather than the mission of completion of the structure called life.
Although
Islam does not discourage the believing woman from working for financial gains
in the world, it lays great importance in the preservation of the sacred bond
of family harmony. The one thing that
Islam absolutely discourages is the free-mixing of the sexes, as that is one thing in the sight of
the All Knowing, All Wise Lord that lays the root of the destruction of the
sacred bond of family in society.
Thus the
conditions that Islam lays on a believing working woman, who sincerely fears Allah and the Last
Day, are:
She must
strictly practice the concept of ‘hijaab’ when in the
presence of non-mehram men.
She must
not engage in casual or non-essential talk with the non-mehram
members of the opposite sex, but always talk straight business talk.
She must
never ever encourage or come to a situation where she meets a non-mehram man in private.
Except
for the practice of ‘hijaab’, the other laws also strictly apply to
the believing men, where they must not
engage in casual or non-essential talk with a non-mehram
woman, or ever try to meet a non-mehram woman in
private.
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
3118 Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab
The Prophet (saws) said, "Whenever a man is alone with a
(non-mehram) woman, the Devil makes a third."
If the
believing woman can adhere to the above principles, there is absolutely no harm in her
seeking the bounties of Allah Subhanah in the world,
if she wishes or needs to do so.
Whatever
written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance,
and whatever of error is of me. Allah
Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,