Sponsoring Orphans
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of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
AsalamuAlaikum, I have a
question regarding Sahih Muslims hadith, it says, Allah`s Messenger (peace be upon
him) said: One who looks after the orphan whether he is his relative or not, I
and he would be together in Paradise like this, and Malik (explained it) with
the gesture by drawing his index finger and middle finger close together (Sahih
Muslim 7108) Can you explain the above hadith? Does it mean to adopt an orphan
to take care of him/her? Are their certain criteria like what if the orphan is
not poor and lives in a house with all the necessities of life? My question
basically is that how can I follow this hadith in the best way. I am in the
USA; can I take care of an orphan that is in Pakistan? Does the orphan need to
be a certain age? Questions like that. Thank you so much. Allah Hafiz.
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Answer:
Sponsoring Orphans
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He
allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there
is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai, nobody!) worthy of
worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His
slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your Question: Allah`s
Messenger (peace be upon him) said: One who looks after
the orphan whether he is his relative or not, I and he would be together in
Paradise like this, and Malik (explained it) with the gesture by drawing his
index finger and middle finger close together (Sahih Muslim 7108) Can you explain the
above hadith?
The hadith is actually self-explanatory. The Messenger of Allah (saws) is trying to explain
the importance and significance of the virtue and reward one would receive from
Allah Subhanah if he/she takes care of an orphan. What would be a bigger honor and success for a believer that he and the Messenger of
Allah (saws) would be together and so close to each other in Paradise!!!
Your comment: Does it mean
to adopt an orphan or to take care of him/her?
Both are meant in the above hadith. One can adopt an orphan (but the orphan
will always keep his own father’s name), in the sense that he takes the orphan
to stay with his family in the house and take care of him just like he takes
care of his own children. Or, he can
sponsor the orphan and pay for his upkeep and expenses, etc.
Your comment: Are their
certain criteria like what if the orphan is not poor and lives in a house with
all the necessities of life?
An orphan is a child who has not reached the age of
puberty, and his father has died. An
orphan child, is amongst the most vulnerable in the society, especially if he
is poor and has no guardian or protector.
If the orphan child is not poor and lives in a house with
all the necessities of life, or has been left enough inheritance from his
deceased father; then one must help the orphan in a manner which is in the best
interest of the orphan. And the best
way to help such an orphan would be to be his guardian and help protect his
inheritance from unscrupulous people and save or grow his wealth, until he
reaches of age and then hand over his wealth to him.
The criteria in helping or taking care of the orphan is
that one should always fear Allah, and do what is in the best interest of the
orphan.
Your comment: My question
basically is that how can I follow this hadith in the best way. I am in the
USA; can I take care of an orphan that is in Pakistan? Does the orphan need to
be a certain age?
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verse 220: They ask thee concerning orphans. Say:
"The best thing to do is what is for their good; if you mix
their affairs with yours, they are your
brethren; but Allah knows the man who means mischief from the man who means
good.”
Anything that you do that will sincerely benefit the
orphan in the best manner, will Insha Allah, earn you the reward as mentioned
in the hadith of the Messenger of Allah (saws). If you are in the USA and want to sponsor an orphan in Pakistan
or anywhere else in the world; there is no harm. You could take care of his financial needs, etc. until the orphan
reaches of age. The age where the
orphan is most vulnerable and needs maximum help and support is when he is a
child and not yet reached puberty or manhood.
After reaching puberty, it is expected that he should be able to take
care of himself.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan