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Asalam alekum i wanted to asked is materbation is aloowed in isalm b4 or after marriege?or if your husband wants u to masterbate should we do this act or no? 

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Answer:

Is Masturbation allowed in Islam before marriage?

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol,  no person,  no grave, no prophet,  no imam,  no dai,  nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Your question: i wanted to asked is materbation is aloowed in isalm b4 or after marriege?

We have answered a similar question regarding masturbation, and are attaching a separate answer for your reference.

Your question: if your husband wants u to masterbate should we do this act or no? 

There is no veil between husband and wife in Islam!   As long as the rights of either the husband or the wife are not compromised, there is no harm if a wife complies to her husband’s request to perform masturbation to him.  

We have answered a question regarding the liberties in sex in Islam, and are attaching that answer for your reference.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me.  Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your Brother in Islam,

Burhan