Please help mee... im in dire need of it
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assalamualaikum, im in need of your help, im from chennai, doing 3rd year b.e(ice), i used to go to my college by college bus, there is a girl from other college younger than me who waits in the same place, when i see her i feel that she is made for me, i say so because i have never felt like this before, i used to simply smile at her, she too responds by smiling, i used to wait for her when she is late just to see her, this continued for months, once i made up my mind to speak to her, i went and spoke, i found out that she was a christian, i told about this to my brother, he said it is better to leave her, and i did, i wantedly used to go late in order to avoid her, but i realised then that i was in serious love with her, i have not yet confessed openly about my love to her and i dont know whether she will accept me as her better half if i propose to her, but she knows that i love her through my gestures i know she is a kafir, but what can i do, i dont know what to do, im completely disturbed by her, i used to seek gods help in duas,and by his grace i think i found this website, sir, please tell me what should i do, is there any way to marry her or is it not permissible in islam to marry her, im completely disturbed by her thoughts, i need someone's help. please help me, what should i do??
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Brother, if the woman id Christian then we Muslim men are allowed to marry them without any conditions. Having said that, your problems will not cease. Your parents might not approve and she might not be able to adjust in a Muslim environment. Her parents might refuse and that could be a major problem.
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