Dua to solve problem with fiance.
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
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i would like to request you do not publish this question on your website please. I have a big problem and don't know which way to turn.
I have been engaged for many years and now my wedding is near but my fiance does not want to speak to me anymore as he blames myself for taking too long to get married to him and he has threatened to end everything- i am not willing to let things go and wonder if u can help me with some dua to make him see things clearly again and show him it is not my fault the wedding has been delayed.
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Dua to solve problem with fiance
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Respected sister in Islam, if the recitation of a few phrases was all it took to instill the fear of Allah Subhanah into someones heart, or change the character or behavior of someone, or enable another to see the truth, etc., the Messenger of Allah (saws) would have recited the phrases on the likes of Abu Jahl and Abu Lahab and they would have feared Allah and been guided aright!!!
Respected sister, if a misunderstanding has unfortunately risen between you and your groom-to-be, it would only be prudent that in the presence of your mehram relative, you should approach the person and explain the full situation and conditions to him which would help remove the misunderstanding. In addition to this, you should supplicate your Lord Most Gracious not only to help you in conveying the truth to the person you happen to have the misunderstanding with, but also to soften the heart of the person so that he may accept what is being explained to him.
If after your very best efforts, the misunderstanding still remains and your fianc wishes to call off the wedding, he obviously is well within his rights to do so.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in Islam,