Divorced according to Canadian law.
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Can I re-marry her as I didnt say Talaq three times. Please advise.
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Divorced according to Canadian law
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Your Question: I filed for my divorce in Aug 2008. But this was only done through Canadian laws and we got our divorce certicates. I didn`t said Talaq to her even one time...is my divorce valid in islam.
There is allowance in Shariah for one to transfer their divorce rights to an attorney, and if their nominated attorney declares divorce on the wife, that divorce will be legal and valid in the Sight of Shariah Law and in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.
If you (the husband) yourself filed for a divorce in a court of law, and the Judge of the court of law accepted your application and granted the divorce in your marriage at your behest.then indeed one divorce will be established between you and your wife in the Sight of Shariah Law and in the Sight of Allah Subhanah, absolutely regardless of whether or not you yourself declared the terms I divorce you to your wife or not.
Your Question: Can I re-marry her as I didnt say Talaq three times.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verses 229-230:
229 A divorce is only permissible twice: after that the parties should either hold together on equitable terms or separate with kindness. It is not lawful for you (men) to take back any of your gifts (from your wives) except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah. If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom. These are the limits ordained by Allah; so do not transgress them. If any do transgress the limits ordained by Allah such persons wrong (themselves as well as others).
230 So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably) he cannot after that remarry her until after she has married another husband and he has divorced her. In that case there is no blame on either of them if they reunite provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by Allah. Such are the limits ordained by Allah which He makes plain to those who understand.
Islam guides that the first two divorce declarations in any one marriage are revocable; thus if the judge of a Canadian court of law accepted your application and declared a divorce at your behest in your marriageone divorce will be deemed established between you and your wife in the marriage.
Because it was you who initiated the divorce, you are well within your rights in Shariah to revoke the divorce before the expiry of the iddah or waiting period of divorce which is three menstruation periods of the wife. If you choose to revoke the divorce or conjugate with your wife before the expiry of the iddah or waiting period, the divorce will be deemed revoked in the Sight of Shariah Law and the two of you can live as a married couple again.
But if the iddah or waiting period of divorce after the declaration of divorce has elapsed, and then you intend to re-marry your ex-wife again for the second time..a brand new nikaah with a brand new meher will have to be performed between you and your wife to enable the two of you to live as a married couple again.
In both of the above scenarios where you exercise your right to re-marry your divorced wife, you would have deemed to have used up one of your two revocable divorce rights. If Allah forbid, you were to divorce your wife again for the second time, you still have the option to re-marry her; for the first two divorce declarations in any one marriage are revocable in Shariah Law.
But if Allah forbid, you were to divorce her for a third time, that divorce would be absolutely irrevocable.and it would be unlawful and prohibited for the two of you to ever remarry again after the third declaration of divorce, unless and until the wife perchance happens to marry another husband, and her new husband of his own free will happens to divorce her, or he dies.
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