Talk sexual with fianc.
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before marriage can a muslim talk about sex with her fiance?
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Talk sexual with fianc
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The process or rite of an engagement has absolutely no legal basis in Islam; thus unless and until the actual nikaah is performed between the couple, they will remain non-mehrams to each other, and every single restriction that applies to a non-mehram of the other sex in Shariah will also apply for ones fianc.
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3118 Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab
The Prophet (saws) said, "Whenever a man is alone with a (non-mehram) woman, the Shaytaan makes the third."
There is allowance in Shariah that the groom-to-be can meet and talk to his bride-to-be, provided the bride-to-be is accompanied by her adult male mehram relative (father, brother, or uncle, etc.).
To talk in private with ones fianc would definitely be in transgression of the prescribed Boundaries of Allah Subhanah.
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