Before marriage rape not tell her husband is write
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Tell or confess past deeds
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
It does not behove and befit a believer, who sincerely
fears Allah and the Last Day, that when Allah Subhanah has covered and hidden
the evil that has transpired in one’s past, to go around and expose it
himself!!!
Beloved sister, it would be prudent never ever to expose
the evil in one’s past to anyone, especially after The Lord Most Gracious has
concealed it Himself. It may happen
that although the wife may confess the evil that transpired in her past to her
husband with the best of intentions, he may be of a nature whereby he cannot
bring himself to accept the truth, and that might effect not only her honor in
his eyes, but it might even have a negative effect on his marital relationship
with her.
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2492 Narrated by Hudhayfah
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "It is
not fitting for a believer to demean himself." On being asked how he could
demean himself he (saws) replied, "By exposing himself to a calamity which
he has not the capacity to endure."
It would be best and purest to confess the sins one might
have committed or the evil that might have transpired in one’s past to none
save Allah Subhanah; and never ever expose those deeds of the past which one is
ashamed of to anyone in creation, especially after Allah Subhanah, in His Grace
and Mercy, has concealed those deeds Himself.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan