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ASALAMO alikum how ru brother? i wan`t to ask you 1 question my question is that every body says that god made our destiney it is true?

And i also want to know that god made our relationship like husband _ wife? i want to ask you my sister name meaning her name is somia we need it`s mean thanks alots ALLAH HAFIZ 

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Answer:

Decree qadr fate

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Your Question: my question is that every body says that god made our destiney it is true?

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 57 Surah Hadid verses 22-23:

22 No misfortune can happen on earth or in your souls but is recorded in a Decree before We bring it into existence! That is truly easy for Allah:

23 In order that ye may not despair over matters that pass you by, nor exult over favors bestowed upon you. For Allah Loves not any vainglorious boaster

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 6 Surah Anaam verse 59:

59 With Him (Allah) are the keys of the Unseen the treasures that none knoweth but He. He knoweth whatever there is on the earth and in the sea. Not a leaf doth fall but with His Knowledge: there is not a grain in the darkness (or depths) of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is (inscribed) in a Record Clear.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 22 Surah Hajj verse 70:

70 Knowest thou not that Allah knows all that is in heaven and on earth? Indeed it is all in a Record, and that is easy for Allah.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 34 Surah Saba verse 3:

3 The Unbelievers say "Never to us will come the hour". Say "Nay! But most surely, by my Lord, it will come upon you by Him Who knows the unseen; from Whom is not hidden the least little atom in the heavens or on earth: nor is there anything less than that or greater, but is (Decreed) in the Record Perspicuous.

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 94 Narrated by Ubadah ibn as-Samit

Allah's Messenger (saws) said: ‘The first thing which Allah created was the Pen. He commanded it to write. It asked: ‘What should I write?’ He said:’ Write the Decree (al-Qadr).’ So it wrote what had happened and what was going to happen up to eternity.

Beloved brother in Islam, without an iota of a doubt, our Majestic Lord and Creator, in His Perfect and Absolute Knowledge, has recorded in The Decree with Him everything before it even came into existence! To believe in The Majestic and Supreme Lord’s ‘Divine Decree’ or ‘Al-Qadr’ is an integral and fundamental element of ‘faith’ or ‘Emaan’ in Islam.

Your Question: And i also want to know that god made our relationship like husband _ wife?

We have attached two answers 3082 and 5073 from our archive which we hope would sufficiently address your query.

Your Question: ….my sister name meaning her name is somia we need it`s mean

The literal meaning of the term ‘Somya’ or ‘Somia’ is a garden surrounded by flowers.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan