I have a question to ask that if one person have Sex (intercourse) with some girl , i heard then he cant marry that girl , its not allowed in Islam?
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AOA i
really appreciate and admire the work you people are doing , i have a question
to ask that if one person have Sex (intercourse) with some girl , i heard then
he cant marry that girl , its not allowed in Islam? can you please through
light on it? though i know its sin but still if the person wants to marry that
girl? is it haram?
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Answer:
Marry after zina
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
If two non-mehram members have dared to commit the evil
and heinous crime of ‘zina’, there is absolutely nothing in Shariah Law which
prohibits them from marrying each other if they wish to do so, provided all the
obligatory conditions of ‘nikaah’ are fulfilled (proposal and acceptance,
determination of mehr, availability of two witnesses, consent of the guardian
of the bride, etc.).
The marriage of the two who committed ‘zina’ to each other
by itself will not forgive them their grave sin in the Sight of Allah
Subhanah. If the two who dared to commit
‘zina’ do not turn back to their Lord in Taubah seeking sincere forgiveness for
their heinous crime before their death, they shall have a severe accounting for
their transgression in the Presence of their Lord Most Majestic on that
Inevitable and Tumultuous Day of Judgment.
But there is absolutely nothing in Shariah Law which
prohibits the couple who committed ‘zina’ from marrying each other, if they
wish to do so. Provided all the
obligatory conditions of an Islamic Nikaah are met and honored, their subsequent
marriage will be lawful, legal and valid in the sight of Shariah Law and of
Allah Subhanah. We reiterate again that
the mere marriage of the two who committed zina to each other would not by
itself forgive them their grave sin, for it is sincere ‘taubah’ and repentance
unto their Lord Most Gracious alone which will eliminate their sin from their
Book of Records.
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:
(O Prophet) say: “O My
servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s
Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before
the scourge overtakes you; for then you
may get no help from anywhere.”
Allah says in the Holy
Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136:
Allah likes such good
people very much, who, if ever they
commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their
shortcomings. For who, but Allah,
can forgive sins? (And Allah
loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from
Allah, and with Gardens beneath which
canals flow, and they will reside
therein forever! How excellent is the
reward of those who do good deeds!
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 54:
When those come to you
who believe in Our Signs, say:
"Peace be on you! Your Lord had
inscribed for Himself (the rule of) Mercy.
Verily if any of you did evil in ignorance, and thereafter repented and amended (his
conduct), Lo! He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan