I am born in a Sunni muslim family. I have a Bohri Girlfriend who wants to know the meaning of the following
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Salaam
Brother,
I am
born in a Sunni muslim family. I have a Bohri Girlfriend who wants to know the
meaning of the following : I dont remember the chapter or verse number where
excatly it is in the Holy Quran. Can you please explain to me the meaning of
the verse. the last part of the verse is "Also (prohibited are) women
already married, except those whom your right hand posses"
I
would like to know what is the meaning of "whom your right hands
posses". Do they mean the slave girls. The sentence is regarding
prohibition of marrying a already married woman and immediately the last part
says except whom your right hand posses. Does it mean that one can marry a
salve woman who is already married" Hope you got my question.
Thanks
a lot.
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Answer:
Slave girls married
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Your
Question: I dont remember the chapter or verse number where excatly it is in
the Holy Quran. Can you please explain to me the meaning of the verse. the last
part of the verse is "Also (prohibited are) women already married, except
those whom your right hand posses"
Allah Says
in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verses 23-24:
23 Prohibited to you (for marriage) are: your mother, daughters, sisters,
father's sisters, mother's sisters, brother's daughters, sister's daughters,
foster-mothers (who gave you suck), foster-sisters, your wives' mothers, your
step-daughters under your guardianship born of your wives to whom ye have gone
in no prohibition if ye have not gone in, (those who have been) wives of your
sons proceeding from your loins, and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same
time except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
24 Also (prohibited are) women already married except those whom your
right hands possess.
Thus hath Allah ordained (prohibitions) against you: except for these
all others are lawful provided ye seek (them in marriage) with gifts from your
property desiring chastity not lust.
Seeing that ye derive benefit from them give them their dowers (at
least) as prescribed; but if after a dower is prescribed ye agree mutually (to
vary it) there is no blame on you and Allah is All-Knowing All-Wise.
Your
Question: I would like to know what is
the meaning of "whom your right hands posses". Do they mean the slave
girls.
Whenever the term ‘whom your right hand possesses’ is used
in the Quran, it does mean the slave-girls.
May Allah bless you and reward you for asking this
question. A lot of believers today push
this ‘slavery or slave-girl’ subject ‘under the rug’ and do not understand it completely
or are sometimes ashamed of this concept.
That is because, today’s society and behavior is absolutely different
from the conditions prevalent 1400 years ago at the time of Revelation of the
Quran. There is no place on earth where
this concept is practiced today, thus to
really understand the concept in its entirety,
we must try to imagine the times of the Revelation of the Glorious
Quran.
Since time immemorial,
slavery was an accepted practice;
thus it was not Islam that started this practice, but rather Islam was the first system to inculcate
the freedom of slaves and take steps to make them equal citizens of
society. Slavery was abolished in
modern society only a couple of centuries ago,
and was openly practiced in almost all parts of the civilized world even
until the early 1900s. But Islam made
it a virtue to free slaves, and
inculcate them into society as equal citizens,
almost 1400 years ago!
So, the first question that needs to be answered is how
did people (men and women) become slaves?
There were several ways in earlier times how a free person
would become a slave.
1. The already existent
slaves and their offspring were also considered slaves.
2. People used to steal
children and then sell them as slaves in another place.
3. One tribe would
attack another tribe, kill the men, and take the women and children as slaves and
then sell them as war-booty.
This practice was prevalent all over the world at the
times, thus we must remember that Islam
neither started it, nor encouraged
it. Islam, in fact closed almost all the doors on how a
free man becomes a slave, and in reality
opened all the doors to free these slaves and make them responsible members in
society. Islam was instrumental in eradicating slavery and made it a virtue and
a means of earning huge rewards from Allah by freeing slaves and inculcating
them into society.
The Messenger of Allah (saws) declared it a sin to kidnap
any free man, woman or child and make them slaves. After the wars, the Prophet (saws) used to exchange the
Prisoners of War if both the warring parties agreed to it. If not,
the captives were set free by taking a ransom for them. If the slaves or their families could not
afford the ransom, most times the
Prophet (saws) showed generosity and released them without any ransom. Only if none of the above were possible, and the captives had no place to return
to, then these captives were made slaves
and all efforts were taken to inculcate them into the existing Islamic Society.
In some instances,
when the enemy was still at war,
there was always a fear that if the Prisoners of War were released, they would go back and join their armies and
attack the muslims again. During these
times, the Messenger of Allah (saws) allowed the prisoners to be taken as
slaves as was the prevalent system of the times. Rather than put them in jail, the slaves were distributed to each household
and they were responsible for the welfare of the slaves. The Messenger of Allah (saws) exhorted the
believers to feed them what they ate themselves, and dress them in the clothes that they
themselves dressed.
Thus, there arose a issue with the women who were captured
as Prisoners of War, and were not exchanged, nor ransomed, nor had any place to
return to. Most times the wars were
with tribes, and whoever won these
wars, the losing tribes were completely
annihilated. Thus there was no place to
send the Prisoners of War back to, and
it became imperative that these people were inculcated within the society. Thus there were two choices left with the ‘slave
girls’:
1. Leave them alone in
society with no family and no protection.
2. Give them under the
guardianship and protection of an existing family.
Option-1. Leave them
alone in society with no family and no protection.
This would obviously
not have been a good option. There was
obviously a fear that these women, who
had absolutely no family and tribe to protect or feed them, would start immoral practices if left to fend
for themselves. And because no one
could determine their lineage, no
honorable person at that time would marry them outright. And also it would not be right to just leave
these women, who had absolutely no
means, no family, and no protection in a foreign land.
Option-2. Give them under the guardianship of an
existing family.
The state would determine which slave girl goes to which
household. Neither the people who
received the slave girl, nor the slave
girl had a choice. Whatever was
allotted by the state was received by them.
This was considered the best and novel system to eradicate slavery and
accept the slaves as members of society.
We must not try to imagine this system of distribution and acceptance in
today’s society, but rather 1400 years
at the time of the Prophet (saws). The
training and discipline of the noble companions of the Prophet (saws), and the true Islamic society which was
created in light of the Holy Quran and the guidance of the Messenger of Allah
(saws) must be kept in view to get a full picture of the condition of the
times.
The slave girl that was allotted by the state to the
respective household, thus became the
consort of one member of the household.
Only this person was allowed to have a sexual relationship with this
slave girl. The difference between this
person’s wife and the slave girl was that his wife came into his house through
the proper marriage contract (Nikaah),
and the slave girl was allotted by the state.
The status of the ‘slave girl’ who was allotted to the
believer was exactly like his wife.
Only the person who was allotted the slave girl was allowed to have a
sexual relationship with her. If the
slave girl was allotted to the father,
then the brothers or the sons had absolutely no right towards this
girl. The only difference was that the
Islamic law of equality of time and sustenance did not apply between the wives
and the slave girl.
The children borne of the ‘slave-girl’ were exactly like
the other children from the person’s legally wedded wife. They were to be given exactly the same
rights as his other children. The
children of the slave girl would inherit the property exactly as the other
children. There was absolutely no difference
amongst the children. And once any
slave girl bore a child, she could not
be sold to anybody else and thus became a permanent member of the household.
Your
Question: The sentence is regarding prohibition of marrying a already married
woman and immediately the last part says except whom your right hand posses.
Does it mean that one can marry a salve woman who is already married" Hope
you got my question.
Considering that
these ‘slave-girls’ who were captured in war were not exchanged as prisoners of
war, nor ransomed, nor had any place to return to….because either their pagan
husbands died in the war or had altogether deserted them, their prior married
status or their religion were absolutely non-consequential and immaterial if
they were to be inculcated into a righteous believing society in the
future.
Thus regardless of the ‘slave-girls’ married status or
religion, she was allocated by the State to the guardianship of a believer as
his ‘allotted wife’ and that was the absolute best and only way for such women
to be made a part or citizen of the society.
One must keep in mind that when these ‘slave-girls’ came and stayed with
the companions and believers who were trained in the ultimate university of righteousness
and piety of the Messenger of Allah (saws), and the way these ‘slave-girls’
were treated with justice by their allotted guardian believers, more often than
not these ‘slave-girls’ accepted Islam as their way of life.
Beloved brother, again I reiterate that this system of
slaves was not started by Islam, but was
prevalent in the society in those times.
Islam tried to encompass the slaves into Islamic society and gave them
the respect and honor of being equal members and citizens of society. Almost all the doors and ways of creating
new slaves were closed, and several
options were created to free these slaves and entwine them into the Islamic
society. It was considered a virtue in
Islam to free slaves and a means of great reward from Allah Subhanah. Islam created a society whereby the
compensation for repentance for many sins like murder, breaking of promises, missing of fasts, etc. was the freeing of slaves. In this way,
Islam created an environment whereby slaves were made free and allowed
to inculcate themselves into the normal Islamic society. We must be careful not to look into this
‘slave-girls’ issue in isolation, but
rather look at the whole picture of the Islamic society at the time of the
Messenger of Allah (saws). The
training, the discipline, the character, and the morals of the noble companions was a
direct result of their association and teachings and guidance of the Prophet
(saws) himself. The values and degree
of ‘Taqwa’ (God consciousness) and the love for the promised
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan