I`m a reverted muslim and i got Iman alhamdulilah thru` a friend of mine in my MBA who has married me. Within 2 months of our marriage i conceived and approx 40 days of my periods, test ( urinary) test said pregnancy positive
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As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's
Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
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Assalamu alaikum wa barkatulahi wa barakatu,
I`m a reverted muslim and i got Iman alhamdulilah thru` a friend of mine in my
MBA who has married me. Within 2 months of our marriage i conceived and approx
40 days of my periods, test ( urinary) test said pregnancy positive. Since i
had financial problems i could not spend lot of money on scanning in private
hospitals and approached a government hospital near my house. The scanning
machine was not so good one and the doctor said that it was not clear and that
it was a molar pregnancy and needs to be aborted, anywayz i was asked to check
with a nursing home diagonistic centre for which i could not afford the
expenses at that time as me and my husband did not have a job and not earning.
So without a second confirmation i choosed for an abortion in a government
hospital for less fees. This was approximately before 45-50 days of my previous
mensuration. Now sometimes when i think about it i feel guilty that i have done
a mistake and this feeling haunts me often. Please help me and let me know if
what i did was a mistake and against Islam. And also i`m worried if i can have
kids in future. Guide me so that I do not do anything which is against Islam.
Thanks
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Answer:
Sister abortion
In the name of Allah, We
praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah
guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide
them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai, nobody!) worthy of
worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His
slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 140: Most surely they became losers,
who, in their folly and ignorance killed their own children; and made unlawful what Allah had provided
them as sustenance, falsely ascribing
prohibitions to Allah. Surely, they
went astray and were not at all rightly guided.
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 151 (part): You should not
kill your children for fear of poverty; for We provide sustenance for
you and will provide sustenance for them also.
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 31: Do not kill your children
for fear of want; for it is We Who provide for them, and for you as
well. Indeed, their killing is a
heinous crime!
The heinous act of
intentionally killing one’s unborn child is akin to the crime of murder in the
Sight of Allah Subhanah, and abortion is thus absolutely forbidden and
impermissible in Islam. If one performs
or is an accomplice in the heinous crime of abortion, and does not sincerely
repent to Allah Subhanah for their abomination, they will be held severely
accountable for their sin of intentional murder of an innocent soul in the Just
and Supreme Court of The Majestic Lord on an Inevitable Day.
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54: (O Prophet) say: “O My
servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s
Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before
the scourge overtakes you; for then you
may get no help from anywhere.”
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136: Allah likes such good
people very much, who, if ever they
commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their
shortcomings. For who, but Allah,
can forgive sins? (And Allah loves
those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from
Allah, and with Gardens beneath which
canals flow, and they will reside
therein forever! How excellent is the
reward of those who do good deeds!
Allah says in
the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah Anaam verse 54: When those come to you who
believe in Our Signs, say: "Peace
be on you! Your Lord had inscribed for
Himself (the rule of) Mercy. Verily if
any of you did evil in ignorance, and
thereafter repented and amended (his conduct),
Lo! He is Oft-Forgiving, Most
Merciful."
Regardless of whatever
sins one might have done in one’s past, if one turns to their Lord in sincere
repentance seeking His Forgiveness before one has met with one’s appointment of
death, it is expected that they will find their Lord Forgiving and Merciful.
Whatever written of
Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever
of error is of me alone. Allah Alone
Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,