Can husband and wife masterbate themselves while witheach other and sexually aroused.and due to some resaon can`t do actual sexual act.....
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husband and wife masterbate themselves while witheach other and sexually
aroused.and due to some resaon can`t do actual sexual act.....i have heard that
husband and wife can masterbate each other but can they masterbate their selves
in presence of each other and sexually aroused by each other...?
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Answer:
What can husband wife do when no sex
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there
is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah
Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the
seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah
Baqarah verses 222-223:
222 They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: ‘They are a hurt and a
pollution; so keep away from women in their courses and do not approach them
until they are clean. But when they
have purified themselves ye may approach them in any manner time or place
ordained for you by Allah. For
Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep
themselves pure and clean.’
223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth
when or how ye will. But do
some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah and know that ye are to
meet Him (in the Hereafter) and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.
Islam has allowed the husband and the wife in marriage
every possible liberty to enjoy conjugal relations with each other, except
three:
- It
is strictly prohibited to penetrate or have actual sexual intercourse with
one’s wife during her period of menstruation.
- It
is strictly prohibited to enter the woman through her anus.
- Although
there is no specific prohibition mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, the
majority of the scholars in Islam have voiced their opinion against
‘oral’ sex, whereby one touches the other’s private
organs with their mouth.
Other than the above three restrictions, one may enjoy
conjugal relations with one’s wife any place, any time, and any how their
heart’s desire.
Even when the wife is experiencing her monthly courses or
during her post-child birth menstruation, there is absolutely no harm if the
couple enjoy each other’s company without performing the actual act of
sexual intercourse.
Masruq ibn
al-Ajda' asked 'Aishah, "What is off limits to me sexually during my
wife's menstruation?" She
said, "Nothing, except the vagina."
Related by
Bukhari.
Your
Question: due to some resaon can`t do actual sexual act.....i have heard that
husband and wife can masterbate each other but can they masterbate their selves
in presence of each other and sexually aroused by each other...?
Since there is no prohibition mentioned in the Quran or
the Sunnah regarding the matter concerned, there is absolutely no harm or
restriction if the husband and/or wife wish to enjoy their relations with each
other by reaching their climax themselves in the presence of their spouse.
Thus in general, other than the three restrictions listed
above, there is absolute liberty and permissibility in Islam between the
married couple to enjoy physical relations with each other any which way they
desire.
Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: ‘The
Messenger of Allah (saws) said: “there is a reward for you [even] in sex
with your wife."’ The companions asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah
(saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said:
"Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully,
he is rewarded."
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and
He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in Islam,
Burhan
Wister