Most of my relatives have sound knowledge about islam but still they celebrate their childrens birthdays.
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
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Assalamu alaikum brother,
Most of my relatives have sound knowledge
about islam but still they celebrate their children’s birthdays, women pluck
their eyebrows, and wears jeans pants etc., when I asked them about this they
were telling that Allah is most forgiving so Allah will forgive their smaller
sins. Sometimes I also feels the same and wants to live like them. Please
explsain me is this point of view is correct or not?
Allah hafiz.
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Answer:
Continue small sins
for Allah forgives
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Without an iota of a doubt, Allah Subhanah is The Most
Merciful and does forgive the sins of his repentant slaves; but one should
remember that He is also the most severe in retribution and punishment.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 15 Surah
Hijr verses 49-50:
49 (O Prophet (saws): Tell My slaves that I am indeed the Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful;
50 And that My Penalty will be indeed The
Most Grievous Penalty.
‘Minor’ or small sins are those which one does in
ignorance, and one may or may not even be aware of the magnitude of ‘minor’
sins one commits…..indeed the Lord Most Merciful forgives a multitude of such
‘minor’ sins through good deeds like charity, ‘wudu’, prayers, fasting,
remembrance of Allah, etc.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 11 Surah
Hud verse 114:
114 And establish regular prayers at the two ends of the day and at the
approaches of the night: for those
things that are good remove those that are evil: be that the word of
remembrance to those who remember (their Lord).
But to intentionally insist or persist in constantly
transgressing the prescribed Boundaries of the Lord, assuming that the Lord
Most High will not hold one accountable for one’s sins as long as they are
‘minor’….is to make a mockery of the Grace and the Mercy of the Lord Most
Merciful. The scholars and jurists in
Islam are unanimous in their opinion that if one insists or persists in doing a
‘minor’ sin again and again, it would constitute a ‘major’ sin in the Scales of
Justice of the Lord Most Just.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah
Nisaa verses 17-18:
17 Allah accepts the repentance of those who do evil in ignorance and
repent soon afterwards; to them will Allah turn in
mercy; for Allah is full of knowledge and wisdom.
18 Of no effect is the repentance of those who continue to do evil until death faces one of them and he says "Now have I repented
indeed"; nor of those who die rejecting faith: for them have We prepared a
punishment most grievous.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale
Imraan verse 135-136:
Allah likes such good people very much, who,
if ever they commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the
commission of a sin, remember Allah
instantly, and ask for forgiveness from
Him for their shortcomings. For
who, but Allah, can forgive sins? (And
Allah loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from
Allah, and with Gardens beneath which
canals flow, and they will reside
therein forever! How excellent is the
reward of those who do good deeds!
Hadrat Abu
Hurairah (r.a.) said: ‘The Messenger of Allah (saws) said, "Allah, the
Exalted, becomes Angry; and His Anger is provoked when a person does what Allah
has declared unlawful.''
Related by
Bukhari and Muslim.
If one trusts, obeys, and follows the guidance and
commands of Allah and His Messenger (saws),
one can be assured of never ever being misled; but if one believes, obeys and follows any
other guidance, other than that of Allah and His Messenger (saws), one can be
assured of being led astray.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan