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Girl boy wishes marriage

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I was Hindu girl and i love a guy(MUSLIM) and we are in relation since 5 years. We lot each other to such an extent that we cant live without one another. I converted to Islam on my wish and he did not force me at all. It was totally my wish. Im practicing that since four years.


In 2007 my mama logged a police complaint against my BF stating that he is harassing me. But with the influence he came out with the help of his dad. He did not go to court as he got a bail. After that we still spoke with each other and were continuing our relationship but the bad day arrived on April. When my bf vent to US embassy they took him to court stating that he dint appears to sign in the court. Actually they changed their house in 2007 when the first incident happened and the notice from the court did not reach them. Though he said the same thing it did not work out. He was released the next day morning and he was appointed in a hospital and got a bail. But cleverly my bf`s father came to know that we are talking and arranged marriage papers and made him sign unknowingly stating that they were some court papers for bail. So he signed them. Later he came to know that they were marriage papers which stated that he is agreeing for marriage. He was married to a muslim girl unknowingly. The thing is that from that day he did not go to his house. He dont even know the name of the girl and did not see her. He is staying at his grandparent’s house. He is feeling so bad. Im really crying daily for what happened. We both are not able to accept what happened. We cant stay without each other. Our health is totally spoiling.


He said he want to give divorce and can you please tell me how to do that?? It is just two months and half months till that incident happened. Should we talk to the girl but what would be the situation? How to make the girl agree for divorse. The marriage was done forcefully and even the boy did not know till the next day. Is that accepted? The boy is not ready to stay with that girl. He want to marry me and I told my parents. We can’t live without each other.


Please help me out. We would die without each other.

PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS help me with loads of tears.

We want to marry each other. Pls help us.

 

Allahafiz

 

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Girl boy wishes marriage

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

 

He said he want to give divorce and can you please tell me how to do that??

Just as a marriage or a nikaah in Islam is a simple affair, obtaining a divorce too is quite simple in Shariah Law.

 

Respected sister, if the boy is indeed claiming that he was tricked into marrying someone he did not wish to marry and wishes to divorce that wife, all he is required to do by Shariah Law is declare unto his wife the words: ‘I divorce you’ once…..and a divorce will be established in that marriage in the Sight of Shariah Law!

 

Having said that obtaining a divorce for a husband from a marriage in Islam is as simple as verbally declaring a few words (and it really is!), Islam guides that a marriage is not a simple union between just two people, but rather a union of two families….thus neither should the parents/guardians force their offspring into a marriage their offspring does not consent to; nor should the offspring seek to marry someone without prior consultation and consent of their sincere best well-wishers in all of mankind, ie. their parents/guardians.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan

 


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