Dua to solve problem with fiance.
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Asalam
alikam,
i
would like to request you do not publish this question on your website please. I
have a big problem and don't know which way to turn.
I have
been engaged for many years and now my wedding is near but my fiance does not
want to speak to me anymore as he blames myself for taking too long to get
married to him and he has threatened to end everything- i am not willing to let
things go and wonder if u can help me with some dua to make him see things
clearly again and show him it is not my fault the wedding has been delayed.
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Answer:
Dua to solve problem
with fiance
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Respected sister in Islam, if the recitation of a few
phrases was all it took to instill the fear of Allah Subhanah into someones
heart, or change the character or behavior of someone, or enable another to see
the truth, etc., the Messenger of Allah (saws) would have recited the phrases
on the likes of Abu Jahl and Abu Lahab and they would have feared Allah and
been guided aright!!!
Respected sister, if a misunderstanding has unfortunately
risen between you and your groom-to-be, it would only be prudent that in the
presence of your mehram relative, you should approach the person and explain
the full situation and conditions to him which would help remove the
misunderstanding. In addition to this,
you should supplicate your Lord Most Gracious not only to help you in conveying
the truth to the person you happen to have the misunderstanding with, but also
to soften the heart of the person so that he may accept what is being explained
to him.
If after your very best efforts, the misunderstanding
still remains and your fianc wishes to call off the wedding, he obviously is
well within his rights to do so.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan