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The husband is harrassing his wife with a written fatwa of shiekh As Sudais imamul haram, that the boy is free 4 his choice.

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what is the concept of sponsership in islam of boy (13) and a girl(8). when the wife seeks for khul`a 4 a valid reason?


The husband is harrassing his wife with a written fatwa of shiekh As Sudais imamul haram, that the boy is free 4 his choice but the gilr will be with his father only . And the husband is putting a condition on his wife to sign on that fatwa give the rights of the daughter totally to him and then only he will free her with khul`a separation.


plz guide us according to quraan wa sunnah how to solve this prob?


We have never read in quraan abt the condition abt the daughter`s sponsership or kafalah., niether we found any exampl;e in ahaadeesth. I`ll b obliged to u if u`ll give priority to this question as the dicesion has to be taken in this week only , plz plz help us with your urgent answer. jazakallah. 

 

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Custody of children

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

 

In the unfortunate event of a divorce in Islam, Shariah Law states that all children (male or female) will remain in the custody of the mother until they reach the age of understanding and puberty; and it will be the responsibility of the father to provide the financial means for their upkeep.

 

Once the children reach the age of understanding, the father has a right to move the Shariah Court if he wishes to gain custody of the children. The Shariah Court Judge will then ask the children who have attained the age of puberty whom they wish to live with: their mother or their father; and whatever decision is made by the children will be enforced by the Shariah Judge.

 

The decision of who gains the custody of the children in a divorce neither rests with the mother, nor the father, nor the Shariah Court Judge; but Allah Subhanah has placed this right of decision in the hands of the children as soon as they reach the age of understanding and puberty. The Shariah Court Judge will only enforce the decision of the children, and give the parent who lost the custody fair visitation rights.

 

In your particular case the boy of thirteen has reached the age of puberty, and it is upto him to decide whom he wishes to live with: his father or his mother. The girl of eight years has obviously still not attained the age of puberty, thus the mother will hold primary custody of the girl until she reaches the age of puberty, after which the girl will be given the right to decide whether she wishes to live with her father or her mother.

 

The total financial responsibility for the upkeep of the children, absolutely regardless of who holds their custody, will be borne by the father.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan

 

 


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