I had doubt after bed relation its good to clean private parts and sleep as per my partice.

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my dear i had doubt after bed relation its good to clean private parts and sleep as per my partice but my question is mother can feed her baby with out wadu please let me know in details reg this`

 

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Ghusl sleep and feed wudu

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

 

Your Question: ..i had doubt after bed relation its good to clean private parts and sleep as per my partice

Sahih Muslim Hadith 603 Narrated by Aisha

Abdullah ibn AbdulQays said, "I asked Aisha about the Witr (prayer) of the Messenger of Allah (saws) and made mention of a hadith, then I said: What did he (saws) do after having sexual intercourse? Did he take a bath before going to sleep or did he sleep before taking a bath? She said: He (saws) did all these. Sometimes he (saws) took a bath and then slept, and sometimes he (saws) performed ablution only and went to sleep. I (the narrator) said: Praise be to Allah Who has made things easy (for the believers in the deen).

 

Although it is recommended that one purify oneself immediately after sexual intercourse, there is evidence and allowance in the Sunnah if one wishes to sleep, eat, or drink, or do other chores before purifying oneself, one must at least do the wudu or ablution.and purify themselves with a ghusl from their state of major impurity when they need to offer their prayers or recite the Quran.

 

Your Question: ..my question is mother can feed her baby with out wadu

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 6:

6 O ye who believe! When ye prepare for prayer wash your faces, and your hands, (and arms) to the elbows, rub your heads (with water), and (wash) your feet to the ankles. If ye are in a state of ceremonial impurity bathe your whole body.

 

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3751 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas

The Messenger of Allah (saws) came out from the privy and water was presented to him. They (the people) asked: Should we bring you water for ablution? He (saws) replied: I have been commanded to perform ablution when I get up for prayer.

 

Sahih Muslim Hadith 725 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas

The Messenger of Allah (saws) came out of the privy, and he was presented with some food, and the people reminded him about ablution, but he (saws) said: Am I to say prayer that I should perform ablution?

 

Shariah Law dictates that to be in the state of wudu is a pre-condition and absolutely obligatory for only two acts:

  1. Prayer.
  2. Tawaaf of the Sacred House in Makkah.

 

To the best of our knowledge there is absolutely nothing in the Quran or the Sunnah which requires or makes it obligatory or even recommends that a mother be in the state of wudu before she feeds her infant child or children! Being in the state of wudu has absolutely no relation whatsoever with a mother feeding her children.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

 

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan